Is it normal to be hung up on someone?

I’ve had nothing but bad luck with men! Then I got talking to a real gentleman. We went on 3 dates and it was all good. He said he enjoyed the dates and he liked me, but couldn’t see me again because of things he was dealing with and we’d haddly be able to see each other... I did fight a bit but I’ve stopped messaging him. He said he didn’t want to delete me...

I’m back on a dating app and putting myself back out there... BUT I still like him, still fancy him like crazy... still want him. Trying my best to forget him and find myself and someone new to date.

My question is, is it normal to think about someone so much when you’ve only been on 3 dates?
I’m not heartbroken or crying or anything. It’s just a bit sad.

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  • IrishPotato

    Pretty common.

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  • JD777

    Yes, totally normal. But, what you really want is to find a guy that wants to stay with you as bad as you with him. Pining after a man who wanted something else is just going to make you nuts and waste time in your life.

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    • Yeah of course I know that. I just wondered if it’s normal to like someone and think about them even if I only spent 3 days with them.

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  • RoseIsabella

    It's normal to have feelings, but do try to get over this whole thing with this guy, because it ain't doing you no good, girl. If I'm lying I'm dying.

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