Is it normal to be highly lustful towards my wife

Feeling lustful towards a female that you are attracted to is biologically extremely normal.

Have sex with her. Get to know her. That is about all there is to it.

I believe my relationship with my boyfriend was kind of lust turned into love. We met when i was 14 and he was 15 and or first year together we mostly talked about "doing it", even though we waited a year. I think some people just know when they will get along with another as a lifelong partner, rather subconsciously, and it can show in the form of intense lust. Honestly, we didn't talk much about non-sexual and general things until we moved in together - and it turns out we have a very similar way of thinking and we're perfect for each other!

no.. sorry, i think i am being misunderstood..
being horny is normal, i know that..

i jus wanted to ensure that my liking towards her should not be just physical attraction because that can be bad for me in the long run as im marrying her.. i jus wanted to ensure sex is part of life and not the main reason for marriage, which doesnt seems to be the case for me as i seem to be only physically attracted towards her and nothing else comes to mind.

It may be because in our culture, people are deprived of sex till they marry.. the family doesnt even allow meeting with the girl,what to say of sex before marriage!

so my problem is that my talks with her are guided by the desires to have sex with her which i am afraid is like a balloon which will burst after i have had sex with her (that is, after marriage) . I just want to avoid that. i wanto think rationally, logically and without fear (of losing her)

regards,

"to be highly lustful"

Hahahahahahahahaha

It's not normal to have an arranged marriage. Seriously, what the heck?

You mean you do not want to lust after you wife. You cant love her and lust after her. Dam some of you guy in this world are so screwed up . I love my wife and lust after her like no other woman I have ever know. I don't know how you can marry a woman that you do not lust after. Lust and love should be in all marriages.

Well, look at it this way: would you rather be in an arranged marriage with someone you're sexually and physically attracted to, or would you rather be in an arranged marriage with someone you're NOT attracted to?

Dude for your own sake, dont marry. Marriage is a sure road to problems. Now Lust and love are reciprocal. So shut up and "Git er dun".

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It's normal to be sexually excited for your wedding, especially if you've saved yourself for marriage. It doesn't mean that you disrespect her. She will understand this. She's probably looking forward to it as well. After a week or two, you'll start to think more clearly and get to know her.

I think you're very lucky to be attracted to the woman that you have to marry whether you love her or not.

Frankly, I think that being so attracted to her will make it easier to love her beyond the sexuality. This is by no means a universal statement, but I know for a fact that people who "hook up" just because it's convenient sometimes find themselves falling in love despite themselves. Good sex with someone you just can't help but want to touch bonds people... it was designed to be that way.

I hope she is as equally lustful to you. And I hope that you both find much more to share beyond the bedroom.

I think it's kind of ideal to be highly lustful towards your wife.

If you want to feel more love, then make lots (it doesn't have to be continuous though) of eye contact during sex, especially during orgasm. It's a scientific fact that it makes you bond emotionally.

You're seriously asking if it's normal to be horny.

Completely normal to be lustful towards someone you're attracted to.
Good luck with that whole arranged marriage thing. I just hope that she got the chance to agree to it too.

Dude, it's really normal. Who cares if your married to her because of her good personality, to me, personality is bullcrap. If her looks fade, then dump her and find a much sexier girl!