Is it normal to be having my teachers baby :d

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I've been seeing this guy for 1 1/2 years now and only recently we both decided we would consumate our relationship. It was my first time and I'm glad it was with him. It was very special and so is he. He is very loving in ALL aspects of our relationship and I've never loved anyone like I love him.
Now then. I'm 19 and he is 30, that's only 11 years, my parents have an age gap of 14 years, and I've never seen age as a problem.
The real problem is that he's my teacher.
And if that wasn't bad enough I found out two weeks ago that I'm pregnant.
This has really ruined my plan.
We were going to tell my parents that we were together after I finish school in the next few months and he has said that I soon as I do finish school he wants us to be 'officially' together. No more lies, no more secrets (you know, pretend we only just started seeing each other after I left).
I've told him about the pregnancy, as you would, and he has been so amazing and so supportive it's unreal. I half expected him to desert me but he's even gone as far as saying to me 'I don't care if I lose my job, all I care about is you and our child.'
We're obviously going to keep it secret from the school by any means so that he can keep his job and support the baby when he or she finally arrives. (Yes, we want to keep the baby, there's no need for an abortion in this case, we both want to keep him/her.)
And we plan to tell my parents of the situation as soon as we feel the time is right. We're hoping to tell them in the next week or two. It'll be hard but as long as he's by my side I know everything will be ok.
Even if my parents disown me, I know I've still got the love of my life with me.
Please, can you tell me your opinions. I think it's good to get some unbiased opinions on this situation.

please tell me what you think of my situation

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  • 143miw
    9 years ago

    im happy for you!! i am in love with my teacher to and what i wouldnt do to be with him!! i know he likes me too but im 18 and hes 43 so ya know lol but hey congrats :)

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  • Geneva5
    10 years ago

    I had one of his kids too.

    It was a retard.

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  • underager
    12 years ago

    Are you doing this cos you want a better grade?

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  • bigtoy
    12 years ago

    So what happened in the end?

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  • hueraaa
    13 years ago

    well there's no point in saying this relationship wasn't right, because it's too late; at the beginning I would have said you shouldn't be with him at all.

    but now that it's gone this far, you need to think strongly of everything that will happen.

    there's no telling how your parents will react to this; they can either decide to disown you like you said, or they'll still stick by your side no matter what happens. I think that if they still stick by your side you're future will be alot easier.

    anyways, my opinion is just to stick with it & don't let anything get you two down; even when times get rough.

    good luck; (:

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