Is it normal to be having a new crush even if you have a bf?

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I recently got a boyfriend, I am sure he has been waiting for me all these years, so I agreed to become his gf, the problem is: I don't really love him, but I treat him like my younger brother. I know this might sound like I am cheating on him, but I just can't get over this problem. I have a new crush, once he said to my friends that he doesn't like me. I broke down and cried. I feel like I am cheating on my boyfriend. I don't know whether to break up with him or what, I'm very confused. Now I just feel like giving up on everything and just focus on my studies this year. Please help. God bless.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    Sweetie, you do realise you aren't obligated to be with someone just because they have been "waiting for someone like you" or ANY other bullshit like that.

    You sound like you're probably young, and maybe you don't realise your own self worth, but there is nothing anywhere in the world that says you need to be with someone for any other reason than you want to. Just get out of things now while it's early and let him down easy, Otherwise you're both just going to end up getting hurt.

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  • SangoNyappy
    11 years ago

    You shouldn't fake your feelings towards the first guy just because you pitty him. And if your crush doesn't like you you should really just focus on your studies.

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  • DubstepismyMJ
    11 years ago

    Wtf. Stop leading him on. Poor guy. Just cause your not kissing him or fucking some other dude does not mean your not cheating on him. Theres two types of cheating emotional and pyhsical cheating . Have some fucking sympathy. Hes not an an object hes human and has feelings too. My god i hope karma pays you a visit.

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  • Rocketcorn17
    7 years ago

    I.
    KNOW.
    HOW U FEEL.

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  • ANDYTREK247
    11 years ago

    Girl just take it one day at a time if you feel strongly about your partner you will not play in someone else field will you .

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  • wonderful360
    11 years ago

    If u don't love him then that's a problem. I recently broke up with my bf becuz we were not talking enough and I feel that I don't lov him anymore. So of u don't love him then break up

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  • abs
    11 years ago

    My first gf did that to me! Bitch

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  • dude_Jones
    11 years ago

    Maybe you are cheating on your own feelings.

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  • redoctober
    11 years ago

    you also must be 12.

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    • jucedaguy
      11 years ago

      Eggs short of a dozen.

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  • Paradiddle
    11 years ago

    I think everything you've said answers everything from how you feel about your boyfriend to what you should do. Its obvious but this is very normal and if you simply don't like your bf anymore then you should end it. I don't know how much you liked this guy when you agreed to go out with him. If you don't feel like things can get better and you break up with him, do NOT tell him that he is like a brother to you, just....don't.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Oh you slag.

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