Is it normal to be hated by your family?

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My family hates me majority of the time. I moved back in with my dad and grandma in October of 2011.

Since then:

My grandpa only yells at me about my cat.
My grandma "the witch" claims she pays for my college when she only payed for $75 application for college. Im paying the 40k.
My youngest bro screams at me to hurry up and move out
My middle bro plays the PS3, talks on the phone, and uses me as soda money. He hates me for the past.
My dad supports me for everything... but chokes at every turn and refuses to get off the computer and hates when i mention my licence.

That's the family. Is this normal? or do I need a new family?

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  • AbyssPrussia
    11 years ago

    Chainsaw is absolutely right. Blood isn't as thick as it always seems. One day, they will regret it, because you will be out of their lives. and when you're gone, they will grieve the hardest. But if you really want to have a relationship with your family, I say have an intervention. Get talking no matter how awkward it will be, and learn how to set boundaries. My family was kinda the same like yours except I'm the second youngest and I always tried to get the family together. And I always failed.
    Now I have great friends who are my REAL family.

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  • chainsaw88
    11 years ago

    How do you REALLY feel? If they make you legitimately miserable something is wrong... I know they say blood runs thick, but I think it's utter bullshit. My friends have been more of a family to me than my actual family ever was. I moved across the country 3 years ago, haven't talked to any of them since, and I like it that way. Happier than I've ever been. :)

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