Is it normal to be hated by everyone and loved by everyone

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its just that i have a wonderful family abd a caring boy friend.but what they expect out of me is not something thats easy for me to do.eventually they r irritated with me now.parents will not desert us.. but my boy freind said its difficult to put up with me and left.i tried my level best to satisfy both.but unable to eventually letting me hurting thier feeling.When people who loves u just started hating you, and u are unable to change it soon, whts life worth for...this is one side of my thoughts... another mind says " try till u can...dont get depressed over ur boy friend leaving you..life has got always something better in life..so keep going.one day u will achieve real happiness".am i confusing myself or am i finding a way to just satisfy myself..i dont knw

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    Apart that your title is irrelevant with your story, your main problem is probly adaptiveness. In any relationship ppl have to make a step forward so eventually meet in the middle. If your effort was little (no matter if in your head was huge(?)) you can't expect the other "party" to walk the rest of it alone.

    I don't really think anyone hates you. But your ex boyfriend concluded that he don't enjoy being with you and see no real future.

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  • nanook026
    13 years ago

    I think you just have to try to be the best person you can be. Always try, and if people hate you with your faults, even if you do your best, then they aren't worth you feeling badly over. You're human, which means you're not perfect.

    But I'm not sure you should just assume that people hate you. I doubt they do.

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  • skyhuh24
    13 years ago

    Why is it that ppl room with their best friends? It never works out. Its like your parents tell you not to do something but you still do it anyway but you later learn that it was a bad idea....

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