Is it normal to be happy as a closet bisexual?

I like sex, a lot. Over the past few years I've discovered that I am a bisexual. I have always been in the closet about it and feel no need to go around telling people about my private matters. Is this normal?

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Based on 161 votes (145 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • Mike_Towcester

    Bisexual = Normal. The End

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  • michelle69

    i feel i am a bit bisexual as well, i am attracted to girls but would never date one.
    anywhoo. yeas i think this is normal. if you are happy just looking at pictures or fantasizing or whatever, do it up. thats what i do :)

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  • Runaway

    It's normal.. in fact, being bisexual is normal as Mike pointed out. I'm a chick and I think I might be the same way, I'm pretty attracted to girls but I don't think I'd spend my life with one. Honestly, I'm sticking to men because the thought of coming out of the closet scares me, and I'm attracted to men anyways.

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  • EtPanem

    I am bisexual as well and only one of my friends know, I feel it is normal to not go around telling people my own personal matters do I would agree with you. Hope I helped :)

    -Et Panem

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  • rainbow6

    Been bi 50 years why come out now

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  • Avant-Garde

    Yes. I'm very "protective" about my Bisexuality. I trusted this with a few close friends and this site. Other than that, I'm almost reluctant and panicked to tell people I don't know very well about it. I know I shouldn't be so afraid about how people will react but I'm still scared that I'll get the same/similar reaction I got over my sexuality when I was young kid. At the time I thought I was gay and I made the mistake of telling people who I believed were my friends this. It was horrible. Most of the kids in the after school program knew about it and they were very wary/mean to me. At one point, I even considered committing suicide. I don't think that I could handle it if history were to repeat itself:(

    You should do what makes you happy.

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  • la_la_la_la

    Normal. I'm pretty sure I am, but I'm still not totally sure.

    I love big, tough, manly men, but I'm basically in love with a female musician, an older lady. My walls are plastered with her photos – if my stereo's on, she'll be on it. People tease me about going all unnecessary when I hear her name or voice, & even when I see someone who looks/sounds like her. If I find her double or sound-alike, you'd have to hold me down.

    If I’m going to be labelled it's as a disabled woman – everything else, tastes, hair colour etc. can & more than likely will change but that aspect of me won't.

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  • WordWizard

    You have stated nothing that would give any indication that you are bi. So I do not know how you except a real answer?

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  • Lynxikat

    Hmm... I don't know it it's normal, but I don't see anything wrong with it.

    But I'm curious- what would you say if someone asked you if you were bi?

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  • Normal:) except i dont like sexual things much

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  • flasher2

    It's normal. I'm a happily married male, but on the rare occasion when I get the chance I really enjoy sex with another guy, especially anonymous sex with a total stranger. I'm not really into guys, just enjoy a wide variety of sex. I'm certainly not going to ruin my life by going around telling people that I'm bi

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