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Is it normal to be grossed out that my boyfriend spits on me down there and uses his saliva for lube?
My boyfriend is the same and I love it!
If you don't, go purchase some lube and tell him that you'd prefer if he used that.
If you don't want to tell him that you find it gross (which i encourage you to do!) you could say that you need proper lube since you still get friction.
tell him, then get some real lube or do more foreplay so you don't need lube
Probably normal. Although, spitty lube does not bother me. I like to give my boyfriend a nice wet blowjob before going at it. He likes it when I get it sloppy and slippery wet.
I use my saliva on my wife's pussy before I fuck her but rather than spitting on her I prefer to apply the saliva with my tongue. I love to lick and kiss her pussy and gently suck and nibble on her clit, and reach up past my mouth with my longest finger and rub her G spot while I'm performing oral on her. This also gets her natural juices flowing pretty good. By the time she starts complaining about whisker burn she's sufficiently lubed up for fucking. I think it would be disrespectful to spit on her even as a lubricant. I've seen guys do that in porn but I think porn in a lot of cases degrades women. Porn often portrays women as object to be used instead of "co-lovers".