Is it normal to be gender confused?

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I really don't think of myself as a gender. I know that I'm born a sex but as far as what gender I identify myself as, I don't think of myself being either male or female, rather I'm a mix of the two or I'm just neither one.

At times I wear make up, get my nails done and wear a dress at other times, I'm wearing a button up shirt, a nice tie, and a vest.

People often ask me if I'm a boy or a girl and I never deny what I am but nobody believes me because I can "pull off" as either gender.

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  • Jcandy
    12 years ago | pl

    Ahh you`re gender-queer! Google it. It just means you don't identify with a gender. You're just you. :-)

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  • person2716
    12 years ago

    Everybody who is a little confused... This person knows what SEX he or she is but does not know what to identify as GENDER! There is a difference gender is what a person identifies as and not what they were genetically coded to be! so 'looking down your pants' wont help! If you feel comfortable not Identifying that is your choice. Why should we create social bonderies we are all human we are all nearly the same! Live and identify (or not) as whatever you want!
    Btw people start being open minded about things and you might actually learn something in life:)

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  • pansyfugufish
    12 years ago

    I am also genderqueer... in that I possess male and female attributes together. Actually... I stopped being able pass as a girl awhile ago, which is funny because that is my biological sex. haha! If you want to do it both ways have fun! I do. ;-)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Have you ever tried on a detachable penis?

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      I lost mine at a friend's house :( Detachable penises aren't that great

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  • kawaiimofo
    12 years ago

    I'm actually the same!

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  • Troniik
    12 years ago

    dont be a drag just be a queen because you were born this way

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    • B^{D
      12 years ago

      lmao

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  • InsertBlankHere
    12 years ago

    Aussiewolf and MadMar, you're confusing "sex" with "gender."

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  • Hmmaybe
    12 years ago

    It's not normal, but that doesn't mean it's bad. If your comfortable then fine. If it's causing you problem then just stick with the gender you were born with if you can pull off either.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    You could be an Androgyne, like me, or something else. Is it a bad thing? No. I suggest look up a list of gender identities.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    :) Gender is a spectrum after all, dear. Perfectly normal, besides what anyone else might tell you. Just find out for yourself where you feel the most comfy.

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    Well...were you born male or female? Just curious.

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  • beebum
    12 years ago

    A FELLOW GQ! Totes normal.

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  • Tebsin1
    12 years ago

    Play both sides of the fence and enjoy yourself. Wish I pass either way.

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  • CharlieHarris
    12 years ago

    Sometimes. Some people maintain we are all bi-sexual under the right circumstances.

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  • GnR66627
    12 years ago

    I think it's normal. I'm a female and the only time I act "girly" is when I'm with my boyfriend. That's the only time that side of me comes out. Otherwise, I just hang out with guys, say gross things, and I've told people before, "I was meant to be a guy," simply because I don't identify with females and a lot of their behaviors/interests.

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  • Inspector019
    12 years ago

    ^^ agreed

    See the definition of gender identity on http://dictionary.com/browse/gender identity.

    Learn more word meanings at Dictionary.com

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  • aussiewolf
    12 years ago

    if you were born with a penis, then you are a boy. if you were born with a vagina, then you are a girl. if you were born with both, then you are a hermaphrodite and then and ONLY then can you be confused on what sex or gender you are. just because i wear jeans and drive v8s and drink beer (all manly things), that doesnt make me gender confused, i just like different things.
    look down your pants and see what genitals you have and you wont be confused anymore.

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  • kittyluv
    12 years ago

    look down your pants?? o_O

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  • MadMar
    12 years ago

    Completely agree with aussiewolf. You are whatever genitalia you were born with. I'm a female. I don't always were make up, actually rarely wear make up. I get along with males better then females, I play video games, I tend to have rather gross conversations and actions and not care what others think of me. I shoot guns, enjoy fishing and baseball. I have a masculine way of thinking and views. But I'm definitely all woman.

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