Is it normal to be gay but doesn't act like it at all?

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I am gay or maybe just bi and I am still in the closet. Not that I have to hide it but people just can't notice it. I mean, I get attracted to people of the same sex which might absolutely make me gay but I am not really into stuff like talking, making gestures, and dressing up in a feminine way.

Because in the place I came from, when someone is gay, he would talk in a way a girl does, they would cross dress, and would flock together and this is all opposite of what I want to be.

I just like guys and that's it. Should I ask if I am a normal gay?

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Based on 46 votes (39 yes)
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  • pondford
    11 years ago

    Very normal and you're not alone. Besides, who says gays have to look and act a certain way to be gay? That's just the stereotypes talking.

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  • lisassss
    11 years ago

    Of course it's normal, i'm a lesbian and i'm not a dyke at all haha. most of the people think i'm straight and they won't believe me. Don't worry, lots of my friends are gay and they just dig straight looking guys

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    Barney Stinson (The ultimate womaniser) from How I Met Your Mother is played by Neil Patrick Harris (who is gay).
    Looks can be deceiving.

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    • anti-hero
      11 years ago

      Yeah but that is a role (a great role that is well done).

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      • GuessWho
        11 years ago

        I guess my point is: You can't tell that he's gay from the way he presents himself to the audience.
        Same as that people can't tell OP is gay from the way he presents himself to them.

        OP is just a normal guy that's attracted to the wrong sex.

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        • anti-hero
          11 years ago

          I agree with you up to the point where you say "...that's attracted to the wrong sex. " He is attracted to the right sex for him.

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  • Retard73
    11 years ago

    fagot

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  • Sadomasochist&BDSM
    11 years ago

    normal!

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  • lolIdunno;)
    11 years ago

    Lol I dunno

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    • pondford
      11 years ago

      lawl.

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  • Sillygoose
    11 years ago

    Samsies.

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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago

    Total normal.

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