Is it normal to be gay and not liking anal

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I find anal GROSS and for this reason never been intimate with anyone. I feel awkward going on Grindr a gay dating app, because you have to pick your position either Top, Bottom or versatile and im neither, i don't watch regular porn either because it always has anal scenes.
I'm a fun, witty masculine guy and i'm into some fetishes wrestling for example but i never been with anyone and im in my 30s. *cries in sad*

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Based on 19 votes (14 yes)
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  • ibrokemyds
    3 years ago

    Totally normal. It might be hard to find a guy who’s okay with never having penetrative sex but you shouldn’t feel pressured to do it just to make another man happy. I wish you luck on finding a hot guy.

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  • Smashy
    3 years ago

    You simply don’t know what you’re missing.

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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago

    Totally understandable and normal to detest anal.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    Yeah, I'm not mad at you. Anal sex is bad for your butthole, and can cause a prolapse.

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  • a-curious-bunny
    3 years ago

    Wrestling as a fetish? Thats new. Just suck his dick im sure he won't complain

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    • blevins
      3 years ago

      I meant erotic gay wrestling not the mainstream wrestling.

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      • a-curious-bunny
        3 years ago

        Yea I know

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  • Curiouskitten444
    2 years ago

    I think you could just put versatile in the options and then explain yourself in your bio <3

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  • DADNSCAL
    2 years ago

    Not liking anal sex is normal, but not having had any sex in your 30’s isn’t. Would you want oral sex? If so, go for it.

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  • Iluvcox
    2 years ago

    I know some guys that would be very happy to just suck your cock on a regular basis and let you nut in their mouths and neither want or need any reciprocation

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  • newnormal
    3 years ago

    Being gay is just disgusting, you should be stoned to death.

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