Is it normal to be friends with benefits when you care for him?

This is why "friends with benefits" is wrong. What has come to this world when such a thing even exists? With that, think about how messed up it will be when either of you go into a relationship. Think about what a relationship will even mean anymore. Think about you having a boyfriend who has friends with benefits. It just ruins everything, confuses life, and creates so many unnecessary pain and confusion. One day, you will see. I suggest you start respecting and valuing yourself and stop getting intimate with him. He's just using you. If you really want him, take away what he wants and let him realize what he doesn't have. Like you said, you guys are friends too. Which means that yes, you are in a relationship, except his jerk ass doesn't want to call it one so he can have other girls as well. Smarten up, young one.

let this.be a lesson to never ever do friends with benefits ever again.

Meh better not give him what he wants. He'll just brag about it and have sex with other girls at the same time as you. If he doesn't want a relationship with you, don't bother the friends with sex bull, it will just hurt you more in the end.

I don't think ur respecting urself :/ my friend is doing what ur doing only this guy has a girlfriend and he asked my friend to be friends with benefits and he also asked her to do It with him. She's like in love with him and he's a huge messed up player who flirts with everyone too who cheats on his girlfriend. He was making out with my friend and ugh it's annoying how my friend still does this. She's so desperate for a guy who doesn't care about her, who doesn't want to get with her, doesn't care about his girlfriend, just cares about getting sex... So ya :/ i hope u make the right choice :/ guys like this r not worth it time not worth hurting urself like this with him

Suck a few of his friends off and see what he thinks of you.

Its obvious none of you understand men....

Friends with benefits is always awesome at first but there's always someone who gets hurt. DON'T GET HURT MY DEAR!! DON'T. If he isn't a jerk then that means he has some feelings for you. I'm pretty sure that he loves you but he doesn't want to admit it cause of his ex. He's afraid of getting hurt and trust me, I've been there. Invite him over, look beautiful, cook an epic meal XD, and show him that you love him and that he shouldn't be afraid of loving you. :D Good luck

Angry person may have been hurt in one of these associations ^ lmao

Stfu and make him a samich