Is it normal to be feel like this about my mother?

I feel like my ma is overly controlling. Also, like she uses me as a status symbol. She buys me all these clothes I insist I don't need, then yells at me for not using em. I dress up for things, but I prefer to dress plainly. Then, she tells me I need more interactions with my peers, but gets mad if I walk to a party full of peers & responsible adults wen it's 2 minutes away. Finally, I need to watch my 2 siblings, ages 2 & 2 months, like they my own kids. I understand helping but it's like they have 3 parents. Is it natural I'm extremely frustrated at her fir all this? Ps I do all submissions via iPod so I can't reply to any comments.