Is it normal to be falling for my best friend?
I have a boyfriend and we've been together for almost a year and a half. I left for school about 3 months after we started dating and everything was fine. It was perfect actually. Just a couple months ago, we started fighting about things and having disagreements and even though we talked about staying together forever, I don't think I can make it that long with him anymore. I understand that people in long-term relationships fight, but this is ridiculous. He doesn't understand the reasoning behind the things that I want in life. He tells me he wants me to be happy, but he questions me when I tell him what I want in life.
As soon as I got to college a little over a year ago, I almost instantly became best friends with a guy down the hall. We know everything about each other and he's such a sweetheart. He's been there for me more (emotionally) than my boyfriend has and even though I know some things about him that would normally push people away, it draws me in. He recently left school due to some terrible circumstances and since then, I've felt lost and like a piece of me is missing. I think about him all the time, and I can't stop myself.
Is it normal?