Is it normal to be extremely jealous of her ?

So My best friend is getting with someone, actually he was with her for like 3 months he was the one in love ,in the other side she was like a drama queen saying things like : im to afraid , its soo serious he's so perfect with me i dont know if i deserve all that or not ,im confused...What ever blablablablaaa -___-, she used to lie to him saying she loves him but she never did she admit it when she dumped him !! he suffered a lot i helped him, Anyways lately she is trying to play with his feelings again , and i think they are getting together again! cauz hes in love with her !and IM SOOOO EXTREMELY JEALOUS !! I THINK I HATE HER !! the thing is that I don't feel nothing special towards my best friend hes like my own brother Is it normal To be that jealous of her ???

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Based on 26 votes (17 yes)
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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    Are you sure your feelings for him are "sisterly"?

    It sounds like maybe you might be a bit jealous.

    At any rate - he's a fully functioning human with the ability to say "no". Sometimes you have to let him learn from his own mistakes. Even if it means watching him get hurt.

    you can't live someone's life for them.

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    • lecitone

      Yes , He's Just a Friend That I love and care about I've known him for like 4 years since then he was just a perfect friend with me I care too much about him i cant accept this girl playing with his feelings trying to outstand!! or maybe im too afraid that she may replace me in his heart ...

      And Actually I think you're right he must learn from his own mistakes , even if its hard watching him suffer he's not a kid he's a young man .

      Thank you so much .

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

        I know you're saying he's just a friend... but when you also say you're worried that "she may replace me in his heart ..." ... it says that you may be acting on more than just keeping him from being hurt.

        Frankly you sound a bit jealous. And you really didn't answer my question - yes you said you're just friends with him... but you didn't answer whether or not you wanted more.

        the way you replied to my question makes me wonder if perhaps you've gotten use to telling yourself that he's "just a friend". You might want to consider really examining your feelings for him.

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  • Monogamy_Sucks

    stay away from her,u do bad to u and her

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  • kitzz12345

    so just follow ur heart girly(not old person acctuly in last year of high school)
    =-) trust me when i say you hate that chicks guts

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    • lecitone

      HHH No No believe me he's just a friend , nd Maybe i'm a possessive person i dont really know , I have a crush on someone else, that's prove what ive said ,But Thank you so much

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      • kitzz12345

        mabey you are just so close that you just care that bad for him and if you really think the chick is bad news you need to tell him or he will get hurt again you know what im saying

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  • kitzz12345

    alright girl time to face the facts you like this guy mabey you just are having dificulty realizeing it =-)

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Why are you jealous of her?

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    • lecitone

      I don't know exactly , But what I know Is that I dont want him to be with her I just can't accept it !!she was such a whore with him !Maybe I overreacted I don't know

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