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Like, I know people have their varying kinks, fetishes, and paraphillias. But is it normal to be only, exclusively into a specific thing that's entirely unrelated to sex, and actual sex/porn/genetalia is a total turn off? I've been like this literally my entire life.
"Athletic sex" as I call it, is not only normal, it is extra-special. In a world where everything seems to have gender, how can we live without seeing the apparent sexual component in _all_ we encounter? I can get turned on my roiling ocean waves; post Art-Deco lamps; 60's muscle cars in various stages (naked?) of rehab; proud macho Mexicans who can walk unabashedly down the street with arms around each other; women's stockings and some shoes. I could go on _ad infinitum_ but I'd better stop in case someone is snooping around here.
Feel good, do it is it should and could be done, and do it without guilt, unless, of course, guilt is a turn on.
Is it hurting anyone else? Is it damaging to you short or long term?
If no to both questions, just go for it, whatever it is! Have fun my friend ......