Is it normal to be embarrassed of my boyfriend seeing me naked?

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I am only 21 and I have 2 kids. I am very embarrassed about my body because I still havent lost some of the weight from having them and I have stretch marks. People always tell me how good I look and that I am so pretty but I always think "you wouldnt be saying that if you saw my stomach". I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now and we are perfect together. I know he loves me so much and I love him but he still has not seen me naked. We always do stuff in the dark or I'm wearing a shirt. He always wants us to take showers together but I refuse. He likes touching my stomach but I am so horrified by it that I can only imagine what it really feels like to him. Is it normal for me to be this self consious with him? What can I do to overcome this?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    If he loves you, it wont matter to him

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  • Proudfear
    13 years ago

    talk to him about it,and streacmarks arent always gross or whatever just let him look he will have to see u eventually right?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Yeah totally agreed

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