Is it normal to be disgusted when you see a fat woman with a thin man?

I have lots of bigger friends, and I accept them! Hey I was bigger but I got sick of it and lost the weight! And now I find when I see a large women and a thin man together I find it revolting, and the amount seems to be growing! All I do is picture them together, and suffication victims. We are told we MUST accept people for the way their born,and hey Props to Lady GaGa on Born this way. But your aren't born fat, you eat your way to it, and there were consiquences? Was I "born" with these feelings? or IS IT NORMAl to be disgusted when you see a Fat woman with a Thin man?

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Based on 150 votes (69 yes)
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Comments ( 34 )
  • bananaface

    The girl might have a problem which means she can's lose weight. I know someone like this, and I hate how much abuse he gets for something he can't change.

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  • 343Boy

    They're obviously attracted to each other, what's disgusting about that? I think you might be jealous. Do you think you deserve men just because you used to be fat but made the effort to lose weight?

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  • salinanaxtx

    @ EveningOwl
    I disagree with you. It would be somewhat more understandable if you were never considered larger, then I can see where you were coming from. But you have lived it, I am sure when you were 'born' with a thyroid problem, you had no choice but to feel a stab of pain when someone called you fat. Now that you are thin you feel it ok to feel disgusted with larger woman?
    You are a repulsive woman. You are a bad example to children and have now become what you once feared.
    You find it ok to to feed your jelousy with the simple fact that when you were once larger and considered a mate you probably couldnt find one as to why you are so unhappy with others end results. It is in human nature to want a soul mate.
    I am disagreeing with you, I was once fat, but did not use my new found thinness to pry off of other women.
    You asked for an opinion you have one. IIN is to ask for an opinion, not ask for one, then give you own. Case Closed.

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    • Verstehen

      WOOHOOOOO! :D That's what's up!

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  • Aloned

    So your saying fat people should only be with fat people? lol interesting

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  • joybird

    You don't need to make any judgement coz neither is doing anything wrong. Perhaps, you just feel superior coz you managed to lose the weight. How do you feel if you see a large man with a thin girl?

    Just for fun - a 9yr old I know calls his aunt and uncle, Burger & Chip, coz they are these 2 shapes. He means no harm but it did make me smile :o)

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  • c90

    Maybe guys don't like what a bitch you are. I'm fat and have a skinny boyfriend, let that sink in sweetheart.

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  • Ono

    Sounds like someone couldn't get a man when they were a fatty boombah and is jealous. Maybe those 'disgusting' fatties have nicer personalities than you.

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    • Jessie735513

      Boombah :') that shouldn't make me laugh, but boy it did.

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    • EveningOwl

      Hm not so much that case, more like I found Fat man repulsive and lazy. And I loved myself to much be embarassed anymore. But I do have a question Do you get guys being fat?

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  • MagickWithoutTears

    Stop picturing them together, and worry about your own relationships. Problem solved!

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  • crissyabear

    Why are you worrying so much about other people's relationships? I find that odd. I couldn't care less about what goes on behind other people's closed doors.

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    • EveningOwl

      Because its not behind closed doors?? I have to look at then everywhere if u tell me to advert my eyes or some bull like that u really dont need to reply its like not staring at a tanny ....

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  • nonamee

    Some cultures think its healthy to be fat. Some people think its beautiful. Sometimes the woman was skinny and slowly became fat after she got together with the guy. Its normal for your reaction. But mean lol.

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  • alv1592

    What about a fat man and a thin woman? You didn't say anything about that, you sexist troll...

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  • Jessie735513

    There are studies to show that people are gentically programmed to be someone who gains weight easily or not. So yeah...to a certain extennt you are born that way.
    That's not the point though...I don't think its revolting that a thin man and a fat woman are together...not in the slightest. Whilst it's not healthy to be hugely overwieght, there is more to life that a person's size-she probably has a pretty face and amazing personality.

    Anyway-Congrats to you for losing the weight but perhaps that in itself has something to do with you not liking it when you see a large woman and skinny guy together? Perhaps because you lost the weight you don't think it's right that people who don't lose the weight can still find love? Just a thought...I'm no psyciatrist.
    Anyways...To be honest-I don't think it's normal to think that way, but they're your thoughts and I'm sure there are people who share your views.

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    • EveningOwl

      I actrually have thyroid problem, sense I was about 12? And so it goes to show I was born that way, yet I ate my way to fat. I just get sick of people saying that, you can control what you eat. And maybe it's not normal, but so far I can add up that the only people answering this post is a bunch of pissed off fat women. And this is my opion. Btw Thank a bunch love.

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  • crissyabear

    Oh and btw I'm not a big woman that is not why I find this strange.

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  • stickfigurebighead

    I think it's normal for an American or Brit. However, I do not find it right or okay to feel this way. I've always been skinny. I eat like a horse, smoke, and lay around all day. Literally. Fortunately for me, it's in my genes to be skinny. However, my mom is "overweight". She exercises at a ladies' gym 4 days a week and eats like a bird. She's with my dad, who is skinny. Why is it fair for you to say that you're disgusted by that? How dare you? Sounds like you have some really poor self-esteem. Worry about yourself.

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  • springintokyo

    You knew writing this out that it was going to piss the fat women off. I've always been skinny, so I just think it's weird sometimes. When I was a kid I didn't understand how people got fat, but some peoples' metabolism has never been great. It doesn't piss me off, I just feel bad for them if they're gigantic and I think some people just like being the way they are.

    It's fine if the woman's a little wider, but when a guy is a rail and the woman could kill him I just think "he likes that... or she was skinny and got fat... or she beats him." I'm not disgusted but I have my theories that I don't say out loud. It may sound mean but humans judge each other whether we like it or not. I'm sure people automatically don't like me for my appearance too whether it's good or bad. It's just human nature.

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  • Although I understand what you are saying, it's ok to find it revolting...I'm the same. I wonder what they see in each other but they must so

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    • EveningOwl

      I do think heathly fat old people are cute, but I'm talking about OBESE people. Not, curvy women. And thank you, yes it's mean But the web site is called is it normal the purpose is to post the raw truth, not to cushion it with love, dip it in chocolate, and serve it to the public..

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      • yea i understand what your saying that an obese woman with a skinny man doesnt look right

        to be honest the more i read the comments by the people that find it disgusting...the more im taking to their side...:S although i was 50/50 bout it

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  • ronn

    This reminds me of RELIGIOUS INTOLERANCE!!! For example, intolerance by the religious (or those who CLAIM to be religious!!!) aimed against atheists and agnostics. An atheist IS NOT an agnostic and an agnostic IS NOT an atheist. And yet, the religious (or those who CLAIM to be religious!!!) peg atheists and agnostics into the very same category. HOW IGNORANT!!!
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    As for me, I am
    A SMALL WEAK TALL SKINNY MAN
    who adores being physically and sexually dominated by
    A LARGE STRONG SHORT FAT WOMAN!!!
    I just love it when
    SHE IS WAY BIGGER, WAY HEAVIER,
    AND WAY STRONGER THAN I AM!!!
    While, at the same time,
    I AM WAY TALLER THAN SHE IS!!!

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  • lol1055

    what's the matter with the man, he looks so ugly skinny, put on some weight and be normal

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  • TheNewEquation

    Focus on yourself! Whatever you're feeling sounds like a problem with you cause if you were really happy with yourself, you wouldn't care about what other ppl are doing....

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  • Verstehen

    I'm not fat per se, but I'm about a size 9 and I'm 5'7. I have big hips and big tits and my very skinny boyfriend LOVES it when I jiggle for him. A lot of really skinny guys do like girls who are a little bigger. They feel that a straight and flat shape looks too much like their own figure. No guy wants to feel like he's banging his brother.

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  • EveningOwl

    Sounds like a bunch of fat people getting mad at my Opinion, to bad.. It's life. You know it's wierd. Unless your fat. I honestly just think it's wierd beacause one of them is fit, obviously takes care of themselves and the other ...doesn't.. Don't get mad at me this is just how I FEEL. Just like you all think it's ...nice? seeing this.. Besides I have friends who tried this and he always tried to get her to stop eating and work out.. Let's just say they DIDN'T work out.

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    • Verstehen

      You're a little ignorant. Skinny people are NOT necessarily fit and do NOT necessarily take care of themselves. Some people are just naturally thin.

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  • EveningOwl

    Looks like everyone needs a candy bar? I looked at all your profiles, only the people who agree with me have photos of themselves? Need I say more? Btw calling someone fat isant a rude comment it's a fact. And I've lived it. Your welcome Kisses xoxo -FFB.

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    • Verstehen

      Look atcha! You asked if it was normal and now you're pissed because the answer is no. Sorry! If you want bullshit, go somewhere else!

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      • salinanaxtx

        Lol thats why she stopped replying.. She just can't handle this..

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    • with the photo thing...could it be that we dont want to show our face on the internet?????

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    • 343Boy

      However, calling them disgusting is rude.

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