Is it normal to be desperate for friends?

See i recently began hanging out with a guy and his church group. i met him in a college class i had, but then he wnated to be more and i told him i wasn't looking for a relationship. We are still friends and at times it can be awkward around him, because he'll say we'll hang out with a group of people and then it ends up being just us two. He even told his freinds we were a couple, and i got mad about it. He says he explained to them that we weren't but sometimes it feels like they treat us as if we were like he hasn't told them like he said he did. I haven't ended the friendship because i don't have friends now and have connected some what with his friends. He does seem to get annoyed when i complain about how i feel but i just want to be honest so it can be clear to him i wnat nothing more than a friendship. I don't now what to do because i don't want to lose the possible friendships i could have with his group. I often feel desperate for friends, because i stick around, so i ask is it normal to be desperate for friends like my situation?

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75% Normal
Based on 51 votes (38 yes)
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  • nowimsureimsane

    College and church huh....doomed i say..doomed!

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  • blacklabelbeeryum

    What is so bad about this guy? I can completely understand you not wanting a relationship but like have you considered him? You sound independent and strong, not willing concede to others opinions. Friends for you shouldn't be a problem. May I ask for more details?

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  • sunny_wantsome

    I love making friends and meeting new people enjoy

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  • nowimsureimsane

    Ill be your friend

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  • I think we all want someone who we can endure school with. It doesn't sound like you're desperate for friends merely acceptance. You could try to hang out with his friends when he isn't around. Who knows maybe they'll want to hang with you over him.

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