Is it normal to be depressed because i'm a virgin

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I am 19 years old and still a virgin. I have heard 'your time will come or wait for the rite person also get a prostitute'. All my friends have lost there virginity a long time ago and i feel extremely left out. Every year I live with this I feel like no girl is ever going to want any relationship with a virgin anyway.It tares away at me knowing that i,m never going to have a lover to call my own.
In high school I wasn't lucky enough to have good looks or have the ability to play sports. When I realized this I knew I would never stand a chance.
Whenever I go to a public place See a couple walking hand in hand and I sick and angry. I don't know how long I can live with this.
If i can know what sex feels like at least once I can die happy.

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  • Ramit10
    12 years ago

    Guys point of view we dont care if your a virgin or not. Just live your life dont worry about sex. It will happen when its meant to be. Just loosen up and go out and have fun.

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    Yeah, being a virgin can suck, but relationships consist of so much more than just sex. Just be yourself and keep looking for the right girl. She's not going to just magically fall into your lap either, you have to get out there and find her! Exercising some can help build confidence too.

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    Don't feel bad. Half those guys you think aren't virgins probably are virgins.

    It's nothing ot be depressed about.

    I don't think you should get a prostitute. I do think you should do things that make you feel better about yourself and accept yourself for who you are, not whether you're a virgin or not.

    What's next? If you find a girl, are you going to be depressed about having only slept with one girl your whole life?

    Break that cycle of depression. Be happy about who you are right now.

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  • beastie
    12 years ago

    Why get so bent out of shape about that?
    It's a problem and can be solved in about 2 minutes flat. In fact, as it would be first time, make that 30 seconds flat, LOL!

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  • volozi
    12 years ago

    I'd pay for it. I highly recommend it. You're nervous because you have no experience, so go get some. Then you will be more confident, and more likely to get into a relationship. And then you'll actually know what you're doing.

    The more you do it the more confident you'll be.

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  • Saycheese
    12 years ago

    I'm 22, a virgin and happy for who I am. I most certainly haven't found the right guy for me and I know I'll eventually find him. It might take over 10 years, do I care... nah. There is someone out there for everyone.

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