Is it normal to be deeply in love with someone in just a few days?

SO, my friend recently got her friend to talk to me last wednesday. We hit it off pretty well, and then she invited me to go trick or treating with her and to watch her little brothers. I went, and had a great time. I felt as if we werent strangers, we are like opposites, but have so much in common at the same time. I dont know, she didnt seem like a stranger, at all. I asked her out (she said yes). Come saturday, i went to her house and spent the day with her. Usually when i spent time with a girl, i wanted to get into her pants.... lol, but this time i had no urge to, like, no lust but in a really good way. I felt extremely happy and nervous, which is unlike me. Like i said i felt comfortable with her, but nervous too. I felt like i knew her already. We talked for hours and then we were kissing for a while. But it was different. She said the same thing too, and im kinda in infatuation, but i know she is here to stay, her mother likes me :) But i really am in love, not a naive love, but not a naive love. I know my emotions. I cant stop thinking about her (infatuation) but its not blindly loving her. I see her flaws, and i know she has seen mine, but it doesnt matter to me. But is it normal to fall in love this quick? Im just wondering, this wont actually change my mind or anything.

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  • Heyjj

    I fell in love with my ex by just a look! I was so in love it was my first serious relationship and it lasted two years. I then moved really far and we eventually grew apart but he will always be my first and only true love.

    I think it's totally normal... The majority of people might think its a bit weird but who cares? You found someone who you really like. Good for you! Not many people get to experience that kind of love I think.

    Hope everything works out well between you two!!! :)

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    • icyfrost

      thank you :)

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    • Holzman_67

      People are too caught up in hate and repressed frustration

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  • RoseIsabella

    It's normal to THINK you're deeply in love with someone after just a few days.

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    • icyfrost

      lmao, isnt it the same thing? At this point its knowing

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  • megadriver

    I fell for my girlfriend in the blink of an eye. We met at a university party and I was an idiot, cause I didn't write her number down. I thought I would remember it. I didn't. About a month later, I met her in the university cafeteria. For that month, I could only think about her.

    So yeah, normal to fall in love in no time. Cause love can be slow, but it can hit you like a Lamborghini on full attack! XD

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  • Holzman_67

    I don't think love can be formed in such a short amount of time. Similarly, I don't believe in love at first sight. More like lust with the potential for love. If lust is shared mutually in a glance, there can be a romanticism of that similar to a feeling of love. But true love, in my opinion is lasting love formed over time, throughout adversity and ill health.
    So I do believe in true love, but what I believe in isn't nearly as romantic and sentimental as what's portrayed in Hollywood films. I think any love that survives adversity is true love.
    I'm reminded of the time I saw an elderly frail old man at the train station being helped down the stairs by his younger (but not by much) wife. When they got to the bottom of the stairs he kissed her on the cheek said "I love you sweetheart" and they walked off together holding hands. That, to me is love, that's what its all about.

    I believe in soulmates, although almost contrary to that, I believe that people's ideas, values and philosophies evolve over time so it is possible that you can find your soulmate and think its forever but actually grow apart. That's individuality for you.

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    • icyfrost

      Like i said, i have never felt like this before in all the girls i have dated. And i know people grow apart, and i hope to the lord that we dont. Im a very level headed person and she is too. And i can say with no hesitation that i love her, even if the love has not yet matured.

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      • Holzman_67

        Yeah its still in iniation. In what they call the honeymoon period.

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        • Holzman_67

          *initiation

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          • icyfrost

            I am aware of that, and we are happily sliding out of that.

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            • Holzman_67

              Ok. I wish you two all the best for your future together. I hope you have found lasting love and happiness :)

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  • SkullsNRoses

    I can't remember where this is from but someone told me that you should imagine that the person gained 30 pounds, picture what they'd look like. If your attraction level decreases you're probably not in love.

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    • icyfrost

      shes not the most attractive girl, i wasnt really attracted to her at first glance, but the more we talked she became beautiful to me.

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  • GarlicOlive

    Get married ;)

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  • funkedup

    All that cliche stuff really is true once you meet the right person, but still, don't scare her off with all the love stuff too soon, you can keep it to yourself and still enjoy it. Good luck!

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    • icyfrost

      She is head over heels for me as well, her friend told me she said the same thing, so i think she really is the "one" :)

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