Is it normal to be dating someone new and still loving your ex?

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My boyfriend (now ex-boyfriend) and I broke up. The next day 3 guys asked me out and I said 'yes' to one. He is sweet, funny and nice just kissing him, I feel like I'm kissing my brother.
My Ex and I had a lot of history. I had never felt that way with anyone before. I miss him!
I don't want to dump my new boyfriend because he will be crushed and go back to his depression.
Is it normal to want my Ex? Does this make me a slut? Please leave comments and advice I don't know what to do? And if you say stick to liking my Ex tell me how to get him back?

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  • gogo45
    12 years ago

    You got into another relationship to quick without having a full closure in your previous relationship. Your new boyfriend is a rebound and a distraction. Your responsible for your emotional needs and wants and you should talk to your current boyfriend about the situation and maybe take a break form him to get your head clear. If its meant to be you will be with your ex, if not then your new boyfriend or neither.

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  • stefani52
    13 years ago

    Your obviously not ready to date. Give yourself enuff time to recover.

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    Yeah.. Moving onto a new guy the day, week or even month after is asking for it. Your mind needs time to recuperate (per se), and you haven't given yourself a breather. You need to take a break, then you'll either realise you do in fact like your ex (sounds like a nice guy? Why break off a good thing?), or that you're over him and ready for someone new.
    From an outside view it -looks- slutty, but it's clear your intentions were good, so don't worry about that.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    I'm with what Stefani said. You didn't give yourself enough time. And you must be quite a looker to have three guys ask you out as fast as the next day. They must have been keeping tabs on you. :)

    I think that if you're gonna go back to your ex, you have no choice but to break your current boyfriends heart, but think about what you're really doing anyway. Think about the reason why you and your ex broke up, and if it's even possible for it to go a second round. Chances are pretty high that if it didn't work the first time, it's probably not gonna work the second time. Then again, I don't know the chemistry you guys had. It's all in your hands. But just be ready for what you're gonna have to face. Someones(prob. your boyfriend) gonna have a broken heart. And no, I don't think that with the information you gave us, that makes you a slut at all.

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