Is it normal to be dating a guy but is in love with another?

I am dating this guy, he is great and all but things between us r more akward then before no reason. We kinda grew apart, we barely see each other and run out of things to talk about quickly. He said he cares for me to much to let this relationship end...but isn't a connection needed for a relationship?. But I went on vacation and met this other guy who is everyhing I dream in a guy. He already told me he has feelings for me but it woul be hard to see him caus he lives so far away. I know I should just stick with my guy but my heart is telling me to go with the new guy..i've been in similar situations but I never had these feelings b4. is it normal to be in this situation??? HELP!!

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Based on 17 votes (11 yes)
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  • nomadgirl

    what is this ' letters to juliet'? Girl, 1st, if your now guy is not for you then just break it of before its too late. 2nd, how do you know that this vacation hero is all that into you? If he cares for you as much, then he should come to you regards your relationship status rite? Anyways best of luck to ya'

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  • sweetangel_894

    Tis a pickle!

    You HAVE to follow your heart and stop wasting time and playing with your current guys feelings. 20 years from now wouldn't you love to say you had the guts to follow your heart?

    Incase you missed the memo YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE! Go for the guy you love and if it doesn't work out move on. Its as simple as that and it needs to be, there should be no question.

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  • BoredGuy

    you need a third guy, also break up with your bf before you cheat

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