Is it normal to be constantly aroused as a virgin?

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I'm over the big 3-0 age, and still a virgin. I have never really dated (anyone who liked me in return), and always considered myself a late-bloomer. The last several months, I have been continually horney. I go to bed wanting the touch of someone next to me. I go about my normal day constantly turned on. I would expect these feeling when I was younger, but never did. So why am I feeling them now? Does that desire to feel someone's touch ever go away?

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    "Does that desire to feel someone's touch ever go away?" I hope not!
    Everything you are feeling is perfectly natural, if not about 15 years late.
    Time to get off your ass and start dating. Right now. I suggest you ask a girl (guy?) you like out. Absolutely the worst that can happen is that they will say,"no". It's always easiest to ask someone who has shown a bit of interest in you, than that unattainable "beauty" you've been admiring from afar, by the way.
    I would highly recommend that you take your date to a comedy club. The comedians will be doing most of the talking, which will save you from a lot of that awkward "first date" conversation. Who doesn't enjoy a night of laughing? Don't get drunk.
    Do not discuss your sexual inexperience! Be interested in HER; listen to HER. If things progress to the bedroom, on this date or succeeding ones, again, do not discuss your inexperience; I'm sure you've seen enough porn to know what goes where. Don't apologize. Relax, this isn't the woman you are going to marry, just your first (hopefully, of many) sexual experience.
    Be affectionate, attentive and above all, nice.
    By far, the hardest part of getting laid, is asking someone out. Good luck.

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    Wow, that is such a good recommendation that you have from "thegypsysailor". He is excellent. Of course he has been around for about 60 some years, so what he says is probably from experience. Listen to him. He says it like it is.

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