Is it normal to be confused about your sexuality?

I'm 18 and I'm a guy. I've never been in a relationship before and only have 1 close friend, who is also a guy.

I've never had sex with a girl before. I think I would enjoy sex with a girl, but I've never tried it.

There's been a few dozen times that I messed around, but they were with guys. It was fun, but I didn't really feel attracted to them at all, I just liked the sex. They were all people I used to be friends with who were curious like I was.

I do enjoy sex with guys, and there's been times where I've seen a guy and thought "he's hot". But I've felt the same way about girls before too. I really can't see myself in a long term relationship with a guy, though. I also don't feel emotionally attracted to guys (well, there was one guy but he's like a brother to me, and I don't feel anything sexual towards him. All the things that would be "gay" in guy friendships really don't bother me when I'm with him. They still bother him though, so I get lots of jokes out of it, although it does make our friendship extremely confusing sometimes. I could see myself having sex with him, but I really couldn't see us being in a relationship. He's pretty hot, so it's not like I've never had that tingle in my pants when I'm around him).

My porn watching habits are kind of strange too. I've watched lesbian porn but it didn't really interest me. Regular porn is exciting, but my favorite has always been gay porn and I don't really know why.

I think I'm straight but I'm so confused.

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  • TrunksHitachi

    Same

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  • Maid_in_Pink

    Gonna toss something out there that's a radical idea..liking Homosexual intercourse while being straight..not that uncommon actually. You may be totally "heterosexual" as a definition of terms would go, as in an interest in women for a loving relationship, but may want some gay sex.

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  • Jcandy

    Blah same here. My best advice would be not to worry about it. Fuck who you want and be with who you want. Your sexuality shouldn't matter anyway. Cheers!

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  • Lobo

    Same here dude!

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  • jayonk

    I'm in the same situation as you!

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  • 8Serene8

    If you have to second guess it then you are not 100% straight.

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    • I know for sure I'm not 100% straight, that doesn't bother me. People rarely fit the sexuality labels perfectly 100% of the time.

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      • simpledude

        so why worry about it then?
        if you think someone is hot, then go for it.

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  • moomus

    Bi

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