Is it normal to be confused?

so theres my first love who i love , and he cheated on me more than once . it so hard to get over him though , but i lknow he'll never change and i miss him more than anything . the second he wants me back is the same second i start dating someone else . all my friends tell me id be an idiot to give him a 5 th chance . byut idgaf . so what do i do ? /: btw . the guy im seeing is a GREAT guy , which makes it harder , but arent you supposed to follow your heart ?!

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  • MrsBailey9

    Five times, and you are still considering taking him back. FOOL. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Every time you forgive him and get back with him, it is as if you are giving him permission to do it again. Wake up, grow up, move on. If you do take him back again, you deserve to be cheated on, and he will.

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  • pay163

    thank you for the advice , i really appriciate it (:

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  • Darkoil

    I really hope you read what im about to write, you have just described my exact relationship that i had with my ex, we were together for nearly four years and she is the only girl that i ever loved but she was always convinced i was cheating and seeing other girls, due to this she broke up with me often and would see other people and eventually we would get back together but the last time it happened a few month ago i just couldnt argue any more, the funny thing is that in the four years we were together i never once actually slept with any other girl although for reasons still unknown to me a lot of people think that i do sleep around so maybe your ex didnt get with anyone either. Honestly i would do anything to be with my ex again but she is now with somebody else and all i hope is that she is happy. I suggest you do what will make you happy.

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  • StrictSnow

    Get back in the kitchen.

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