Is it normal to be closed off?

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I wasnt sure how to word the question but basically the problem is something like this. Ive dated a bunch of different types of girls and it always ends the same way. Im told that Im too closed off or before it even gets to that I end it. I understand what it means but I am unable to fix it. Basically I can have a great time with a girl for a while but eventually it wont matter whether I see them or not. Im fine on my own but are there really people out there who are good with that for life?

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  • Faceless
    13 years ago

    Road closed due to construction up ahead. And this construction is for a fortress to keep your insecure feelings in. Something like that? Insecure feelings due to something in the rear view? Almost completely out of sight but not forgotten? Work it out yourself buddy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It depends on what you want out of a relationship. Not wanting a deep emotional connection with someone is fine, as long as you are upfront about it with whomever you are "dating". It's not fair for you to let others become attached to you if you have no intentions of reciprocating that bond with them.

    If this way that you are does bother you, you may want to start participating in sharing your opinions, feeling, goals, and past with the women you're in a relationship with.

    I imagine that women are initially attracted to you because you are aloof, but once you've been with them a while, it's an expectation that you would graduate your relationship to a deeper level of mutual understanding by sharing your intimate feelings.

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  • HSVWHO
    13 years ago

    Nope there aren't.. Relationships are for sharing... Fuk buddies are good with that for life...

    I mean a hooker will do that same job if u know what I mean.. There is no emotion involved right?

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