Is it normal to be clingy after only talking for 2 weeks?

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I've been talking to this guy for 2 weeks now. He's already telling me how much "I mean to him" and how fast He's "falling" for me. In a way It's cute but He's always wanting to spend every day together and he shows up randomly at my job and gets upset when I don't have time to talk to him. I'm not use to this much attention and to be honest I'm almost ready to run for the hills but He's sweet and I kind of want to give it a chance.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    If he has really fallen for you, and he is not experienced at relationships then it could be normal. But it is time you talk with him and teach him a little about boundaries and how to act. Good luck with your choices

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    • Imsupernormal
      11 years ago

      "he is not experienced at relationships"

      What the hell is the problem with that?

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      • davesumba
        10 years ago

        There is no "problem" with that. But it would 100% explain why he is doing this. He doesn't know what being in a relationship means, what it doesn't mean, what is okay, what isn't okay, what is creepy, what is cute, what is too much, what is clingy, when does she need space, and if he really is even truly in love etc.

        So instead of running for the hills, the OP needs to be more understanding, and FUCKING TELL MEN WHAT YOU GOD DAMN MOTHER FUCKING WANT. Girls would rather run for the hills than fucking tell a guy what they want.

        Another explanation would be that he hasn't heard of the "Dobler-Dahmer Theory."

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Two types of clingy, real and false, both undetectable in difference.

    1. He is head over heels in love with you, truly and honestly.

    2. He is actually the abuse/control type playing with you. Be wary of men who say "i love you" really easily, as it may be quite the lie and is part of how they "charm and disarm". Women have a huge blind spot to this as they confuse "clingy" with "he's obsessed with me". For about two months they seem great and infatuated, only to beat you half to death and fuck every woman that moves.

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    This dude is showing up to your job? It is ok to want to see the other person every day but he seems a bit stalker-ish. Tell him about limits and that he cannot just come see you when ever and where ever.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    11 years ago

    Well if he's turning up at your work after two weeks, alarm bells should be ringing in your head.
    It's just weird.

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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago

    I hate that shit. I left a girl not long ago for that reason.

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    Slap him.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Run away fast

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  • Ldizzy1234
    11 years ago

    I can't take that stuff either. Currently, theres a guy who's been acting that way towards me for a week now. I just don't care for too much closeness that quickly. I kinda like to slowly move into things a little each day, or ... a little each week.

    So yeah, I could understand why you'd feel the way you do. It is a little strange that he makes visits to your work. But if you feel like you wanna give the guy a chance, give him a chance. But know what you're getting yourself into. Make sure you walk into this relationship with your eyes wide open. I'm not trying to sound wishy washy, but ... its never really a good sign for someone to say that they're 'falling' for you only a couple weeks in. And it is a little creepy when they go to your job, and when they get upset because you can't talk with them.

    You could always suggest for him to move a little bit slower. But if he doesn't take your feelings into account, then forget him. Good luck!

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    Psycho, end it quickly or in a few weeks your face will be his new purse.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    My boyfriend was like this 3 years ago. It was hard to handle, so I know how you feel, but it will wear off. He's just excited and thinks you feel the same way. Ie.Wanting to see him every waking moment. You never know, you might get used to it. Do what feels right though, you seem to want to keep going, so do it. If it gets to be way to much, talk to him or dump him. Up to you. I don't regret staying with my boyfriend, if that helps at all

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  • KnightNigelWellingtonXXI
    11 years ago

    God I know someone who is so goddamn clingy. If he has ONE conversation with someone, he'll be all, "We're best friends now" or "I love you because we're best friends."
    He is so goddamn annoying. Being friendly is one thing. Being so fucking clingy is another. Steer clear of that guy. He is trouble.

    Signed,
    Knight Nigel Wellington XXI

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Umm... No.

    This man is displaying "warning signs". If I were you, I'd tell someone immediately and run to the hills. If he starts to stalk you, you should contact the authorities and get a restraining order.

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