Is it normal to be cheated on
my girlfriend cheated on me and i don't know what to do
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Aries
I understand that everyone is human and we make mistakes . I was cheated on before and I left her . I forgive her now and I can be friends with her , see her but I have no desire to be with her again . I think once someone cheats on you , it's time to move forward and find someone who is already at that emotional maturity to be a loyal lover . You will always have that in your mind , no matter what people try to tell you . You will always be suspicious of them , it will always bother you , you cant live like this . If you truly think you can forgiver her and it doesn't bother you she was with another man , by all means .... but I don't think that's the case ....... is it?
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chained_rage
Whatever you do, DON'T cheat on her. Rather get engaged to a random chick and make her move in with you and your girlfriend.
That'll show her
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RoseIsabella
Dump that trifflin ass bitch! It's okay to open your heart and forgive her for the betrayal, but forgiveness need not mean reconciliation with another person. I don't believe in wasting space in my life on cheaters and liars.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
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NathanScot
Mate,relationships are based on trust.If you break it once chances are you will break it again.Take it from me...i've cheated on 2 exes.You never go out saying your looking to be adulterous etc but you just find yourself in very tempting situations and once you cross that line it becomes easier and easier every time...unfortunately.
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NathanScot
I cant speak for others but to me i dont equate sex with love...as in strictly speaking i can have sex with someone purely because i find them hot but beyond that there is nothing like feeling involved.I guess i have conditioned myself to view cheating as only something that involves feelings.Whether it is a mechanisim that i apply as an excuse to be adulterous or i actualy believe in the principle behind it is an entirely different matter.
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(s)aint
I´m the same, I have had sex with strangers and I could literally fuck anyone if they are above legal age of consent and willing if they appeal to me.
BUT to me, cheating would be one of the worst things I or my partner could ever do.As a sex-addict I know how important it is to be with someone who, if not always, most of the time can keep me sated.
If not, I´m out.
But why not stay single or get with someone whom you agree with to have an open relationship? Freedom for both you and your partner.
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thegypsysailor
There is nothing upon which to base a relationship, if there isn't trust. She's definitely proved herself to be untrustworthy. Time to find another girl and send this one packing. It sucks to be a cuckold.
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flyingnostalgia
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JD777
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Darkoil
That depends. A drunken fuck is a lot different to say her sneaking around behind your back seeing someone.
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LuxM4G
Have a serious conversation with her and decide if the relationship is worth keeping. Everyone can make a mistake.
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thegypsysailor
How can cheating be a mistake? Like they were running with gay abandon across the lawn holding hands and they tripped, and whoops, his penis accidentally slipped into her vagina?
No, people pretty much have to make a conscious decision to have sex and risk hurting their partner, IMO. Sadly, no mistake here; only an on purpose.Comment Hidden ( show )-
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LuxM4G
I could cheat on someone in an exceptional way and feel really sorry about it, if that's the case then I think she deserves a second chance. No need to feel insecure about it, if she engages on further adulterous behaviour then dump her. Sex is just sex. Emotional cheating is what truly hurts.
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LuxM4G
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thegypsysailor
There is nothing impolite ("unpolited" is that what this word is supposed to be?) about responding to your post with hogwash. It was meant as a forceful disagreement of your statement,"Sex is just sex. Emotional cheating is what truly hurts.".
Cheating of any kind is, by definition; cheating. What is cheating? Breaking trust. Without trust one can not have a real relationship. If you forgive a cheater, then that relationship is only sex, so in that case, yes; sex is sex.Comment Hidden ( show )
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