Is it normal to be called this?? :/
i have gained a lot of weight recently....and i have entered the stage of being called fat now .. :(
lately one of my teacher called me "pehelwan" which means strong wrestler or metaphorically it means strong person and a confident one.... its not usually a good compliment for girls.... he didn't say it in front of me but to my class mate while he was praising my work presentation.... and my class mate told me that in a bit taunting tone.... i didn't like the way she told me that although i didn't mind the comment....
after this my sports teacher told another teacher not knowing i was around ,that im a sporty girl who is always active and has a good stamina .. these comments have had a ''labeling'' kind of effect on me ...which is the process of calling any person again and again with a specific dialogue and the person eventually turns up acting in the same way.... but im confused !!am i that fat to be called this... have i loosed my girlish beautiful figure....or my confidence is putting a bad impact on my reputation....
my height is 5'feet and weight is 134 lbs... if you would be called this what how would you react and should I take it as a compliment or an insult.... does my figure really seem like a wrestler..!!
| forget about it ... be YOU!! | 40 | |
| its a nice compliment ...!! | 10 | |
| it actually was a sarcastic way to taunt you....!! | 11 | |
| i would love to have been called this..... | 5 | |
| haha you fatty.... | 16 | |
| others.... | 3 |