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Ok so when my girlfriend talks to people she's very nice and conversational, which attracts guys. Currently I know for a fact three guys like her. She also goes to swing dances where she dances with other guys, including one of the guys who likes her. I'm extremely bothered by this, should I be?
It's normal, you're jealous cause you care and don't want to lose her, but it's a tricky and pretty common situation. She likes attention cause it makes her feel sexy to be desired, most women need to feel desired, they've had men/women pursuing them since their adolescence. When this falls off as they get older, it becomes even more important. That being said, keep her happy in the sack dude. Hitting the gym couldn't hurt either. But if you're servin' up some good dick/whatever and keep her cumming, she'll keep coming back for more ;)
Put yourself in her feet man.
You do that for a second and imagine her telling you she doesnt like you speaking to girls, because you have girls after you.. or that she hates that you take dance lessons and DANCE with other girls..
Its ridiculous macho bullshit man, what you should really be doing, is making her love you more so she doesnt get atracted by these other guys, make yourself worth it.
Guys will be everywhere and there will always be someone who wants to steal her away from you, even your friends. If she loves you and you're worth it, she will stay with you. If not, theres nothing you can do about it, she will leave you for another guy, no matter what you tell her to do or not do, its not like youre gonna lock her in a basement and forbid contact with other man, THINK MAN THINK. Make yourself worth it.
All of your lives she will be around other guys and you around other girls. Do you really want to ruin your relationship with jealousy? You picked her and she picked you! How can she be worth loving but not trusting?!
It's good for a girl's self esteem to be admired by other men. It's no big deal. Quit being a jealous freak!. Stop being so insecure and be a man.
I agree with the dude that said make sure you're worth it. Jealousy is okay but freaking out over it is not. Until she over steps the line. If she does, talk to her. Otherwise, you need to trust her
Well, I would say that feeling of being jealous is a normal thing. That prooves how much you love her. Personally I would think it was a cute thing, if my bf were a little jealous. But don't overdo it. Talk to her, straightforwardlly. Tell her, what makes you uneasy and why. Are you afraid of losing her? And together you might found a way for you both to deal with it.
You're completely normal! Don't feel bad because you actually care about your girlfriend and don't want another guy to steal her. If you didn't feel bothered in any way I would be worried, or think you didn't really like her.
Fritz is right. If it really bothers you take dance with her... More time with her and less with him.
Yes. I would be mad if my bf danced with another girl. And if y don't like she should respect that and either not dance with guy who likes her or flirt a little less. She probably sees it as harmless. Bbut u should talk to her and tell her how it bothers u so she understands
Would you rather be with someone who noone wanted?...no!
As long as you know she is faithful i think relax, this is where the trust thing comes into play. :D
good luck!!