Is it normal to be bored of sex with my wife?

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I've been with the same woman for twelve years now and I'm bored of our sex lives.
I've had the advice that we should try sexy underwear and stuff but if you've been eating the same thing for twelve years what difference does it make what plate it's served on?
We've tried sex toys but if you've been eating the same thing for so long what difference does it make using a spoon; fork or your hands?
She will NEVER have a threesome or anything like it. I'm having sex with her but it's always the same thing in the same order. We have tried all the positions and anal etc. but it's still the same.
Is this a normal feeling and what can I do about it? I don't want to cheat on her.

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Based on 11 votes (9 yes)
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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago

    Sounds like you need to spice things up a little. Try buying a chicken suit.

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    • shuggy-chan
      10 years ago

      spicy hot wings

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        Love that chicken from Popeye's!

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        • myboyfriendsbitch
          10 years ago

          Eat More Chicken. Moo.

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          • RoseIsabella
            10 years ago

            I love the Chick-fil-A cows! YaY!

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      • gummy_jr
        10 years ago

        You know I love me sum hot n' spicy chocken

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    "if you've been eating the same thing for twelve years what difference does it make what plate it's served on? what difference does it make using a spoon; fork or your hands?"

    Well it's never going to get better with that attitude, is it? I'm not sure what advice you're expecting if you've basically told us sex with your wife will always be rubbish.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    For the record, greens and ribs taste much better when you eat them with your hands. You're no fun and that's what the problem is.. just looking for an excuse to sleep with someone else, aren't you?

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      He wants a butt slut.

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      You mean like Collard greens? I usually use a fork or spoon but... if ya give me some boiled crawfish I'll suck those heads and pinch the tails on those mudbugs!

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      • myboyfriendsbitch
        10 years ago

        Ohh yeah, Collard, Kale, Turnip, Mustard. I will eat just about anything with my hands. I like to pretend I'm a caveman when I eat a porkchop, but ribs really do it for me.

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          I...I'm not sure but...I think you were me in a previous life.

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          • myboyfriendsbitch
            10 years ago

            That depends... Are you from the future?

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        • RoseIsabella
          10 years ago

          Damn girl, but those greens sound good. Sometimes I eat salad with my hands. I went to college in Monroe, Louisiana so I really like southern food but not much is that here in Las Vegas. :-(

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    watch porn while fucking.

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  • Holzman_67
    10 years ago

    Change location maybe go on a holiday seek marital counselling look at some online forums open your mind to different attitudes about sex, try different methods of foreplay. Rediscover what turns each other on, stop masturbating, start dancing lessons, eat better, communicate better, remember what it was about her that attracted you to her in the first place.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Hey at least you get laid.

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  • White_October
    10 years ago

    It's normal, I also get bored if I'm with the same guy for too long. You need to switch every now and then.

    Why don't you just try visiting a prostitute? I mean, that's a women with experience, someone who can teach you new things in sex that you can then try with your wife.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Low testosterone? Just an idea.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    You don't seem to be that willing to try different things with your wife.

    I'd suggest Swinging/3ways/4ways or whatever, but as you have already said your wife wouldn't agree on this.

    I guess you have to make a choice: Do you love her enough to stay with her even though the sex isn't that great? Or is sex so important to you that you ought to get out of your relationship and try to find someone else to be with?

    Either way, cheating is NOT the fucking answer.

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  • kelili
    10 years ago

    You should play roles or refrain from sex for a while. This is one of the thing I fear for my couple. My cousin have experienced this, her husband told her that he was sick of being in the same vagina again and again.

    I don't know what can be done to remedy to that. My feeling is that you really want to sleep with other women and that in the near future that's what's going to happen.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    It's normal. I'm single and still get more bored with women the older I get.

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