Is it normal: to be bitter of one's happiness?

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In my case, my ex and I broke up 1 year ago and I just got a boyfriend 3 months ago, whom I really like. After I ignored him, he bugged me for 4-5 months to become his "friend"; now we have an awkward friendship. I'm not interested in getting back with my ex, but since he dumped me I don't want to see him happy either. I think he has a new gf and for some reason I'm bitter. We usually play games together once a day and now I just want to avoid him altogether. What would you do? Is that normal?

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  • jimbom
    12 years ago

    I would say its very normal but not justifiable at all. But that is how people work.

    You could be feeling like this for allot of reasons.

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  • AmINormal101
    12 years ago

    Ignore that bastard... The world is full of men so don't worry...

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You basically wanted leverage over your boyfriend but didn't get it. Now you're pissed. Am I correct?

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    • Buuberry
      12 years ago

      Not at all, I wanted proper closure. I would say I'm bitter because he never really gave me closure when I helped him through a lot of emotional trauma. It hurts to see that he could respect someone he just met more than I.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Then I read you wrong. Your bitterness is justifiable. I say that you should just ignore the guy if he treats you with less respect than anybody else.

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