Is it normal to be bisexual but to be annoyed girly gays?

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I identify as bisexual because I love woman, and men sexually, obviously gay men annoy the shit out of me and I have very few openly gay friends. I'm out, but most friends are straight Male and women. Is it normal to be this way? I dont even think we need gay marriage, think public displays of affection are disgusting, and am very 3mbarass3d when a gay starts twirling or is overboard, I'm not ashamed or being bux and absolutely support people's indigieuality but is it normal to be pestered by femme gay males?

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  • post-alone
    5 years ago | pl

    Is it normal to be homophobic when you’re part gay? Very normal. Very destructive, very pathetic and revealing (of your insecurities) but it’s normal.

    Man to man, just dislike PDA and have that be your thing. That’s fine and harmless. Don’t put other people down for being themselves. You’d get fucked up if someone did that to you (anyone would, and we’ve known that for like 30 years). Super harmful to perpetuate any of that bullshit. It’s probably just how openly gay people tend to get treated around you, so you’ve adopted that response. That’s how whole types of people, who aren’t doing anything wrong if you actually sit down and think about every part of it, get met with ostracization (best case) or violence (worst case). You have to choose which you want: keep that pointless cycle of people being raised in your community to hate other members of your community, or cut that shit out.

    But yes it’s normal.

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    • bigbudchonga
      5 years ago

      You obviously don't know what homophobia is... Op clearly states he has nothing against homosexuals. Since when is being weak/effeminate homosexual? Taking dick is homosexual, being an effeminate bitch in public is not.

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      • Maid_in_Pink
        5 years ago

        Yeah, I'm like super girly and effeminate and even I find the gay guys who are like..horrifically over the top to be annoying. It's not like they want to be women or anything like myself either. Doesn't mean I have a problem with gay people in general or with trans people like myself, I just don't like that behavior in men. The same as I don't like girls who throw on bitchmode and guys who do that brodude stuff all the time...as sexy and amazing in bed as most of them end up being most of the time, it's no excuse!

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        • bigbudchonga
          5 years ago

          Ye dude I agree with you on this.

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      • Nickleangel
        5 years ago

        He is being very homophobic, how is saying "I don't support gay marriage not homophobic"? It's like saying I don't support women voting but I'm not sexist, WTF?

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    • Ube
      5 years ago

      Dont get me wrong I Never put them down and would defend them, but underneath I am full on annoyed, sorry if I came off like that

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  • Fair_Lucy
    5 years ago

    Girly guys are great, the problem is flamboyant guys. I know the feeling of "ugh he's making us look bad". I guess just try to detach them from you, they share as much in common with you as someone who uses the same shampoo.

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  • xxLucifer
    5 years ago

    Your preferences are your own. If you don't like the way people act then that's ok. I'm fine with gays, but I hate the overly flamboyant ones because I just find them to be annoying to be around.

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    • samfoxrawr
      5 years ago

      It’s a culture, and all cultures (toxic or not) have a place at the table.
      If flambos have to deal with the average person, then you have to deal with flambos.
      Same goes for any culture you’re not a part of, whether it be defined by a nationality, a political agenda, or how ‘girly’ they act.

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      • xxLucifer
        5 years ago

        Yeah, but that's not the issue. I have a choice whether or not I want to associate with those people. I can find anyone annoying and not want to associate with them unless I have to. I don't have any kind of obligation to talk to anyone unless they are in a position of authority over me such as a police officer or a boss, in which case I will do without complaining. No one is saying that they aren't equal or don't deserve equal rights not even the original poster is saying that. The original poster is just wondering if it's normal not to like people they don't like.

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        • samfoxrawr
          5 years ago

          Oh, don’t get me wrong! I just made a clarifying point.

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    • Ube
      5 years ago

      Agreed

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  • shrekizlyfeyo
    5 years ago

    I think its normal to be uncomfortable by something that isnt normal. It's not normal for men to be feminine, obviously im accepting of it but its not normal and sometimes that can make our brain a bit uncomfortable. Feminine men are a preference, its a type of person. I am a bisexual female and I have never once liked a masculine gay woman because its just not my preference.

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  • bigrichard69
    5 years ago

    I smell a virgin.

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    • bigrichard69
      5 years ago

      But yeah no those kind of people are cheesy, I get it.

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    They're so fucking annoying. Wanting dick doesn't automatically mean you have to act like a flamboyant cuntnugget.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago

    You're normal. I'm a bisexual female and masculine women are a turn off for me. Its fine to have preferences.

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  • dinerowhispers
    5 years ago

    lol nope different strokes for different folks. im a gay (not bisexual) man and I don't like getting penetrated nor do I suck peen lol.

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  • bigbudchonga
    5 years ago

    Dude!!! I'm totally with you on this. I'm about 20% gay myself and the effeminate gays are just weak. They're the epitome of unmanliness and why being seen as gay is seen as the kind of guy who likes shoe shopping or is scared of spiders and shit. It's not that they're gay or even that they're submissive in the bedroom that's bad, it's that they act like weak bitches day to day. Grow some balls damn it.

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    • growinUTubr
      5 years ago

      how the fuck are you 20% gay?? did you divide your straightness by the amount of times you thought pussy was great?? like???

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      • bigbudchonga
        5 years ago

        I'm a bit gay but not much

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        • Maid_in_Pink
          5 years ago

          I guess i'm like..33% gay? Well...do you count zoo tendencies as gay too? Cause then i'm like 66%...and what about pegging? Is that a less than whole encounter gay? Cause I'm bi-sexual but I guess like...10% of that girl attraction might be part gay since it's about wanting them to fuck me like a bitch? SO maybe like...75% gay...or...maybe I'm like 25% gay since i'm trans and I should probably like guys?

          Is that how this works? Am I doing the math right?

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