Is it normal to be bi-curious?

Recently I've been kind of wondering what it would be like to have sex with another guy... I haven't really thought about what the relationship itself would be like, just the sex. To be honest, I kind of want to try it. But I'm scared of trying it and then not liking it, then breaking the other guy's heart because of it.

Is it normal? Advice?

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Based on 258 votes (211 yes)
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  • andiforoncedonthatehumans

    Welcome to iin.A site which 90% of users doupt their own sexuality and post the same things over and over and over again.

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    • tuvwxyz

      I think its normal for everyone. Let me give some advice. If your curious then while your young and single, find that person that realy turns you on and that wants to try the same things you do and go for it. Cause when u get older and get married you will always wonder about and fantasise about it to the point youll do it while you have a relationship or married. Fill your fantasy at all possible and have fun now while u can.

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    • disthing

      I like your name :)

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  • Anime7

    First off, it's extremely normal to want to experiment, regardless of gender. If there's one thing I could say it's just to find someone who wants to have a friends with benefits relationship. You guys could leave the emotional attachment behind and just go to town.

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    • ryan4399

      That's a good idea, but I'm scared word will get out or something and girls won't like me or something. Do girls think bi guys are gross?

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      • GinnyWeasley

        I am a girl and I dont think bi guys are gross. I have a huge crush on a guy who is bi actually

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      • quentari

        Now, I can't speak for ALL girls... but bi guys are hot. three-way with two guy? yes please. Guys making out is as attractive to straight girls as two girls making out is to straight guys.

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        • gloryholeflasher

          I appreciate your comment. I love watching 2 beautiful women making love to each other, (which I've only seen in porn), and I often fantasize about being in a MFM 3 way with a woman who enjoys watching 2 guys making love to each other. I imagine her being like the director in a movie, telling us what to do, and I'm sure I would be happy to comply with her every request, and I would be enthusiastic about satisfying her sexually as well.

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        • Terence_the_viking

          Right on sister about the two girls kissing i mean.

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      • tripw7

        Only if they are over 20. Most will welcome some experience.

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      • Anime7

        I wouldn't know, but I don't think girls think bi guys are gross, although that's just my opinion. If you're afraid about word getting out then do it with someone you trust, that's really all I can say.

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  • GreyWulfen

    I think most people have been at least a little bi-curious at any point in their life, and it's perfectly normal.

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  • Isabella80s

    Yes, of course! I'm of the belief that nobody is 100% 'straight'. Ok, so some people are 99%, but I think many are kind of 80,20 or something.

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  • bandit12

    I'm also curious about sucking cock and fucking another mans arse. There's lots of men who are.

    I'm married so don't want to do it and screw up my marriage. But it doesn't stop me fantasising about it and jerking off

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  • tuvwxyz

    Before he even thinks of entering you analy he needs to get you emotionally ready. Usually start with one finger in you anus with lube of course all the while he is rubbing and stimulating your clit area. Then when your getting hot put in 2 fingers then 3. He can also stulate your anus by licking it and rubbing around it even your groin area. Have him do what ever turns you on. After a while then put in 4 fingers and move them around till make you used to the feeling. Maybe even kiss the neck, your boobs or your inner legs all the while he is stimulating you. Dont have him stop whatever makes you feel good but take the fingers out and replace them with his manhood. Have him go very slow in and out alot until your used to it then slowly have him go all the way inside you. Maybe have him pull all the way out to give you reprieve then try again. If hes constantly rubbing you and kissing your body it makes it alot hotter and more erotic. Ive yet to have a female not enjoy this when i try and ive been divorced for quit awhile still in the dating/playing stage. Anyway,some thoughts for yea!

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  • nanawhite

    Yes, it is normal and you have the right to experience new things in life and explore your sexuality if this is what you want to do. Otherwise, I am sure you can find someone to experiment these new kind of things. Just be honest with the guy, that you don't want something serious, but sexual experiences. You'll see if you liked it or not.
    Personnally, I am very attracted physically by women and I still question myself sometimes if I've ever been in love with one of them 4 years ago haha maybe I was just bi-curious and still am !

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  • MacG

    I'm honestly 100% straight. You're gay or bi? Doesn't bother me. If that's what you want to do, go for it. But yes, 100% straight guys do exist.

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  • bihubby

    I enjoy being bi. my wife likes to watch me and some times she will join in

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  • GazingEye

    It is very normal to have those feelings, why? Because we are Human. There are plenty of people out there that just want sex. So go and find a gay guy who is willing to have sex and let him know that you have never had sex with a guy before but you want to try it. And if you didn't like it then it's not your thing, but having sex just that one time with the guy won't make you gay, I call it the experiment sex.

    We are all born BISEXUAL but it's the paths in life that decide if we 1 Stay BISEXUAL 2 Become GAY or 3 Become STRAIGHT.
    Things you do in life is what makes you for who you are, so if you like having sex with men and women BISEXUAL, just men GAY or just women STRAIGHT. And remember it's okay to be any of them. Don't hide behind the "I'm 100% STRAIGHT" line and yet you also like men. Just admit that you are GAY, BISEXUAL or STRAIGHT to yourself and then slowly tell close friends and family, and those that don't like it weren't worth having in your life in the 1st place. I know many people who dislike the idea of being GAY but they have gay friends, they dislike it but doesn't mean they hate the person, HATE is a strong word.

    So if you have sex with a guy and you like it good for you m8, just be safe and enjoy life, just don't kid yourself and say you are STRAIGHT even though you enjoy same sex acts it will eat you up later.

    We are unique, be proud, be strong, be YOU.

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  • Iwannasd

    I've wanted to get on my knees and suck dick before, but I haven't done it yet. I recently found out one of my friends is gay, so I probably could if I wanted to, but I don't know if I could go through with it. I don't know if he has any diseases or not, and I want my first sexual experience to be with a girl. Do you guys think I should go through with it if given the opportunity?

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    • ryan4399

      Well, I'm still a virgin, and I know what you mean, I'd like for it to be with a girl was well...

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  • JBN

    Come on over, I am available for some MTM experimentation. Do you like them on the skinny/swimmer side?

    Can I post my phone number on here?

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  • hello56

    I'm feeling the same way. I want to try to see how it feels just once tho. I heard It feels good. I'm a guy also..

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    • ryan4399

      Do you know how many guys are into it? I would hate to ask a friend to bed then get rejected. I probably wouldn't be able to take it.

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      • hello56

        No not really but I'm guessing not that much? I don't have guy friends that are into those stuff so yea and I don't really go out much and when I do I'm not really the social type, but if a random guy would want to try I would say yes depending. I'm super picky. It wouldn't be just any guy.

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        • ryan4399

          Yeah, I know what you mean. They have to have really nice muscles :)

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    • JBN

      hot!

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  • MartyB

    Suck a cock and find out!!!

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  • flowergirl87

    Of course. I think most people are probably bi-curious, at least at some point. It's a different thing to being in a relationship with he same sex, obviously. A lot of people know they want a full relationship with a man or a woman, but are willing to experience physical/sexual intimacy with the same sex. Or just think about it. A lot of people try to deny their bi-curious thoughts, which is a bit sad. : /

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Creampieing the hell out them assholes

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    • JBN

      Sounds like fun... I'm getting wood.

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  • EccentricWeird

    FREAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • You are being a homo, and do homo things if you are a homo like homos are.

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