Is it normal to be bi but be super girly?

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So I'm bisexual but I'm totally more into girls. I am very girly though. Many people don't believe me when they find out i like girls because of how i look and no one would ever suspect it. The thing is mostly everyone who I know or meet that is either a lesbian or bisexual looks somewhat gay. I'm not trying to be stereotypical but I'm sure everyone knows what I mean. (for example like when people find out they would be like well yeah it's obvious she is gay or yeah I could totally see that)(as for me people will be like no way!!!) so I guess I'm like a lipstick lesbian but is this normal? Or is this not normal because I never ever seem to meet anyone like me. I'm jw cause I feel like a weirdo that can't relate to anyone. Btw I don't care about what people look like, the point of this isn't to be judgmental. I'm jw if anyone can relate or thinks that I'm normal. Thanks!!

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    If you can find me a rule book somewhere that says all lesbians and bisexual females need to be dyke-like, I'll vote you abnormal.

    I've never seen one myself, and don't believe there is one, so in my books, you're normal.

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    • Tehboss
      12 years ago

      off course there is that book it's called the regulations for the gay world by dr adrian wesley who is in fact president for the gay affairs at the un

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Why not join a bisexual social group in your area? "Meetup" has a butt load of groups on every topic under the sun. You can also start your own group. Another option is hooking up with someone via Craig's List. By doing this you will get all of the validation you need...hopefully.

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  • Inspector019
    12 years ago

    It takes all types to make the world go around. There are others out there, you just may be more limited by the area you live in or the places you go.

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    I'm a lesbian and girly...it's ignorant to believe in stereotypes.

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  • Thatguy777
    12 years ago

    Are you a girl? That sounds fucking hot! But if you're a guy then no

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  • _edinboro
    12 years ago

    I love pink and purple, I sing soprano (high and girlish) in a chorus, I love shoes, sparkles and glitter; and yet, I dated a punk rock girl for a little while who has more of the "obvious" look you talk about. The only "dykey" thing about me is my taste in music and the fact that I play guitar. Everyone is different.

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  • windowlicker
    12 years ago

    Yeah I had a friend who was super girly into shoes and all that stuff and recently knew that she had a girfriend. Sometimes looks and taste have absolutely nothing to do with sexual preference.

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    Thank you YeahRightlol!!!!!!! It means a lot to me to know that people care. I am so sick of itduz always being rude and mean. He thinks that he is the isitnormal police. Oh well I think that my question was legitimate and I'm not just looking for attention that is ridiculous.

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  • ShanaiiKiiro
    12 years ago

    I'm bisexual and nobody believed me when I told them. It's not about how you act and how you look like and all that stuff. You are you no matter what stereotypes or other people say.

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    • SockUnicorn92
      7 years ago

      Yep same here. Came out to people and none of them saw it coming.

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    i wonder just how girly you look. it really depends if you rate less then 35% on the manly exam then you are officially a freak and should be terminated!
    We at gays'r'us provide such termination in our ample cremation centers and would be more then happy to provide such service for a small fee :) hope to see you soon

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  • howaminotmyself
    12 years ago

    One of my best friends is bi and she wears dresses, makeup, has a trendy haircut, etc. She is all woman and likes to kiss them too. But look out fellas, she will eat you alive too.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Ok your bisexual, no one cares.

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    • Tehboss
      12 years ago

      you do care... stop pretending.

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    • YeahRightlol
      12 years ago

      I do.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Well then you are a basic person.

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        • YeahRightlol
          12 years ago

          No, I am a person that cares about others and their interests. You should try it.

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          • [Old Memory]
            12 years ago

            Well then you should read what this site is about. It isnt for the obviously normal questions. No thanks I dont want to "try it" because by doing so I would be making it clear that I want these stupid "Im gay/lezbian/bisexual so give me attention" to stay on but I dont because they dont go with what this site is about. You new users need to realise this isnt a site where you vent and talk about everyday things.

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            • SockUnicorn92
              7 years ago

              Lol. This site is about asking things that you may not know are normal or not. These things could be everyday things for some and unheard of for others. You need to not assume that every person in the world is like you.

              If I were to imagine myself in the shoes of the OP I would also be confused and would ask questions...simply because I can.

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        • SockUnicorn92
          7 years ago

          This feels like an insult lol

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