Is it normal to be bi

The Puritan values are just a result of the male dominance factor. Most guys are fine with threesomes involving 2 women but if you switch it to 2 men it suddenly becomes "unnatural". Same for homosexuality; they'll be fine with 2 girls but if it's 2 guys it's "unnatural" or "wrong". It's because as a male they feel their dominance being threatened if a male is dominated by another male. Religion's just an excuse to justify this primitive behavior. Then there's the select few who choose to deny this nature and are labeled as "bisexual" or "homosexual", usually with negative associations attached.

Sorry for the rant, but this is a pet peeve of mine. Like you, I think if most guys were honest they are at least curious about sex with another male because sex is fun no matter the form, but they're too insecure to admit it. Thus the homophobia in society. Sex is enjoyable no matter the form, it's normal.

I was bi since day one of prubrty.

Your so lucky to find a woman that you can spend your life with that knows your bi and likes it. I also believe that all guys are bi. I have friends that i would say are very straight but do bi like things without thinking about it. I also have bi friends that are married but have yet to tell their wives. so I think its normal, not as normal to be compleatly open about your interests though.

Romans 1:18-32
Nature shows it plainly that homosexuality is not designed. Statistics show it plainly that homosexuality is not healthy. Homosexuals show it plainly that it is not beneficial to society.
Wisdom shows us what is plain, the real problem is people want to do what they want to do, even when it is wrong. It's been going on since the beginning of time.
The last verse here says that "they know the judgement of God." Everyone has been given a basic scale in the heart to measure right and wrong. Even if we were to "omit" homosexuality out of the equation, everyone would still be caught by their own words and found guilty of doing wrong. Doing good deeds do not erase the wrongs we have done, they only cover them up. The problem here is, heaven is heaven because everyone there is sin-free. The only hope for us all is to have our sins completely forgiven rather than covered up. And Jesus is the only One who can do this.

boo puritan values!

Sorry, complaining about puritan values is catchy. Not that they're actually moral or valuable.

Your love and sex life is awesome. I know. I'm bi, have a long term relationship with another bi guy and share with him friends with benefits with several girls. Fucking win.