Is it normal to be attracted to someone while in a relationship?

I dunno... I feel sexually attracted to other men, and I'm in a relationship. It's not like I don't like my boyfriend! I really do! I care about him a lot, and I would never cheat but.

Sexual urges won't go away when I look at others.

Is it normal? I even have a preference too, but let me restate again, I'd NEVER have sexual/cheat on him in any way.

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83% Normal
Based on 42 votes (35 yes)
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Comments ( 9 )
  • shuttuppnerddplz

    Oh....its...somewhat surprising that everyone says its normal...i personally find it really hard to understand...mm well, people are different.

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    • Optimist

      Ikr!!!

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  • Digsbie

    what Ellenna said

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  • Ellenna

    Totally normal, doesn't mean you have to act on it.

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  • mysistersshadow

    Perfectly normal.

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  • WhiteApple

    I am married to an asian woman, I have this thing for cute asian women and my wife as attractive as she is, her girlfriends are just as cute and I have to keep myself in check when they are around. It hard to do, but I know when to draw the line. It is normal as far as I am concerned to attracted to other people.

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  • parrotdead

    It wouldn't be normal not to.

    My mom told my dad that she didn't care where he got his appetite as long as he came home for dinner.

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  • Dudu

    100% mormal but nobody admit. Love and sex urges are two different things. Every person want to have sex with different person. It gives more pleasure. I love my gf but when I sex other sexy girls or married woman I just want to lick them and fuck them like a wild dog. The sexual taste and smell differs from girl to girl. I am in a relationship from last 5 yrs and o love my girl friend very much. But my sexual drive is too much wild. When I see my sexy maid who is 23 having a fatty ass working in my kitchen, I grab her ass and do anal with her. It does not mean I love her. I love sexy body and love to fuck. I had sex with my neighbour lady many times.

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    • PENISBRAIN

      Does she suck your dirty cock when it comes out of her ass ?
      She is 23 and has a " fatty ass " already ?

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