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Theres this guy that i really like and I'm like extremely attracted to him, but when you see him he's not that attractive he's not what most girls would want to get with lol is that normal to want him so bad still and think he's so attractive?
If you date a guy you find attractive and no-one else does, well done. You get to be with someone attractive (to you) and no-one else wants to steal him off you.
If he's UNATTRACTIVE and you are ATTRACTED to him, then dear, he is attractive. Beauty is a matter of question, you just have a different taste. Most of my friends say Gillian Anderson is hideous, but I love her.
If you're attracted to him, he's attractive to you, and that's all that really matters in the long run. :) don't listen to what other people say. And dappled has a good point, less competition :p
Hey just because you aren't attractive to what every other girl likes, doesn't mean this guy isn't attractive in your eyes. Make sense lol? My friend's boyfriend is not in my eyes, attractive. But she's head over heals for him. Girl you are YOU and UNIQUE go for him!
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When you really like someone (even if they aren't a 10), they become beautiful to you because you care for them so much. You begin to love their flaws. SO NORMAL! :)
If you're attracted to him, this makes him attractive. Remember everyone has a different view on what is attractive (In the eye of the beholder...) Just because to others he may not be attractive, that doesn't mean you are weird for finding him attractive. DUH. lol.
i never thought my ex was hot or anything, but i had such strong feelings for him and fell in love with him really fast. looking back on it he's pretty unattractive, but i didn't care at the time.
Thats normal. That means you don't care as much bout him on the outside, you care about him because of his personality. I've dated a guy that was not the hottest guy in the shed, but he had amazing talents, a great personality, and he knew how treat a girl right. :)
how can you say that you're attracted to a guy whose unattractive? I mean how do you know he's 'unattractive' when you're actually attracted to him and which is why you must obviously find him attractive rather than unattractive? I am sorry I believe you're trollin' and this is a circular argument..spinning, spinning and spiiiiiiiiningggg...
PLEASE STOP TROLLIN' LADY.
I'm kinda like that too. Some of the guys I've liked, my friends say to me, "Are you serious? He's not that good looking!" But I think he is. And then I've liked other guys that were like the complete opposite. Guys that always had the girls surrounding them. The kinda guys that girls would flock to in a heartbeat.
But its really not all about the way a person looks. And even if you were attracted to someone that everyone else considered not so attractive, it doesn't matter. And it shouldn't matter. You like who you like. Others shouldn't have a say. You might be drawn to the guy for other reasons.
There was this one guy who I became very attracted to when we had a couple classes in college together.(Sadly I don't talk with him anymore.) But we used to laugh so much together. I swear I fell for the guys sense of humor. I really think thats what it was! We became pretty close, and on the days when he didn't show, I'd find myself searching for his face. And I was friends with one of his friends, so I found myself asking his friend where he was. Haha! The guy I was attracted to ended up giving me his #, but my feelings later died when he sent me a text asking if I would send him a naked pic. I got really pissed off, because I thought he was actually one of the more decent kinda guys. I was really naive at the time, and thought that it could've been real love since I fell for the real him and not his looks. But that text was a huge disappointment, and my wake up call.
i find that when you drink a lot of alcohol all unattractive girls become attractive. so yes i think its normal
your probably attracted to his personality, well done you have surpassed all of those preppy little airheads, by a long shot
It's not really important what others think about his looks, you're attracted to him and that's all that really matters here.
BTW I think Gillian Anderson looks great too!