Is it normal to be attracted to someone 5 years younger than me?

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I am a 19 year old bisexual girl and coach a group of girls that are all about 14. I have been feeling pretty distraught lately because I've found myself attracted to one of the girls. I didn't notice this until just last night when I had a dream about just talking with her in a flirty way. I woke up and realize that I did in fact feel an attraction toward her. I think it's very strange because I have always thought huge age differences were creepy and I am very aware of how young she is. Although I find myself attracted to her I DO NOT plan on pursuing it in the slightest and have been in a very happy relationship (with someone my age) for over 2 years now. Is it normal for me to have these feelings? I feel pretty uncomfortable about the whole situation. :(

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  • Tempest-au
    7 years ago

    The feelings are normal - 5 years isn't a huge difference, and I've seen some really precocious 14 year olds over the years.

    Feeling uncomfortable about being attracted to a child who is effectively in your care is also normal, and quite a healthy sign.

    Keep coaching. If there was something "wrong" with you you wouldn't be freaking out.

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    Thats only 5 years. So what.

    You got 20 year old blonde chicks banging 70 year old money daddies lol

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Your feelings are normal, just don't act on them

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    Eh people have been brainwashed into believing doing anything sexual with a 14 year old is wrong lol

    For reasons unexplained.

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