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Okay so i'm very young(in my teens still) and i'm attracted to men almost double - three times my age, I would go for someone aged 28 even up to 65. I really don't know if this is normal, my friends think i'm weird and i just generally don't know what to do, do you think it's normal?
If i said my father's been absent a lot, would that make you think it's more normal? (didn't think it applied so i didn't add it)
There is something severely wrong with you if you're in your teens and would seriously consider having a relationship with someone THAT old. Seek help. NOW.
This screams and reeks of daddy issues. Although there is one older man I've always been seriously attracted to and that's Sting! Now keep in mind I will be 45 years old in less than a month, and have thought he's physically perfect for over 30 years, and, oh yeah, he's a to rock star.
Would I jump at the chance to be with him? Hell no, he's married man!
See a therapist, and get some help. Its not your fault your dad wasn't there for you growing up, but now you know there's a problem, so do something about it.
Older men who would be interested in you are predators and pedophiles and dating an adult is not okay since you said you're in your early teens. Tell your parents that you feel the way you feel about older men and ask them to take you to therapy or talk to your school counselor, but whatever you do don't date an adult :(. The men who posted above who encouraged this kind of behavior you are disgusting and if you actually participate in school behavior, you are pedophiles. Get help and turn yourself into the police if you've hurt a child.