Is it normal to be attracted to my friend's girlfriend?

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So I have this friend I've known for about 5 years. We aren't really that close, we just sometimes party in same groups. He has always been really nice to me. During these 5 years he has had a relationship with 3 different girls and as soon as I have seen them together I've instantly started to get attracted to the girl (mostly in the sexual way). One of those girls I knew before they started to date and I didn't have any feelings for her, until after I heard that they are together.
Nothing have I done to disturb their relationship though.
Sometimes only jacked off for their pictures and felt a bit guilty for that afterwards.

I have no idea why it has only happened with his girlfriends but not any of my other friends'. Could be just coincidence? I really don't have anything against this my friend.

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  • changes123
    10 years ago

    You want them because he desires them.
    So you make the connection that they possibly have something interesting to offer, and get instantly attracted to them. Also, they have a connection with your friend, so that helps you see them in a different perspective.

    The same logic works with celebrities for others.

    Either way... you seem disturbed by it, and it doesn't seem that healthy. I think you need to focus on finding out when this started, and what could be causing it. Everything has a reason.

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  • ThatCreepyWhiteGuy
    10 years ago

    im attracted to my friends wife so i guess its normal.

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  • Holzman67
    10 years ago

    I feel rick springfield coming on...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u2T7wKdQsTo

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  • intoxicator
    10 years ago

    Its ok to br attracted to one of his girlfriend, but not all of them

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  • EdgeFencer
    10 years ago

    I thought wanting what you can't have mostly accounted for women. I guess guys feel it too

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Just insecure I guess, you feel an odd need to compete in a losing battle.

    It happens, but it is a big world out there. So it's not hard to find hot chicks, they are everywhere.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    Your girlfriend-dar is broken so you're using his?

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