Is it normal to be attracted to girls, but only have feelings for men?

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I'm a girl, and I've always felt that I was straight. But I like to look at women sometimes, and if they're very pretty I end up being almost sort of attracted to them, and I'll stare at them and look at their body, etc. I do the same for guys as well, the only difference is that I feel more "love" towards men, and actually want to have relationships and sexual encounters with them, whereas with women, it's just purely looking at them and being drawn to them. Is this normal, and am I bi?

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  • randomjelly
    11 years ago

    I think my dog is beautiful but that doesn't mean I want to fuck him. One can appreciate beauty...simply because it is beautiful.

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  • frankiestrange
    11 years ago

    Very normal. :)

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  • PoeticDreamer
    11 years ago

    Completely normal. If the thought of having sex or a relationship with them doesn't appeal you're not sexually or romantically attracted to them, just aesthetically, so you're not bisexual. I think a lot of girls feel the exact same way and think that means they have to identify as bisexual or bicurious, but unless you want something more to come from it you're just appreciating their good looks.

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  • questionmarkbaby
    8 years ago

    Oh my god I feel the exact same way. I would never want to fuck a man, but I can't see myself marrying a woman.

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