Is it normal to be attracted to (gay) exes?

I hope I'm wording this correctly:

One of my exes have revealed their sexuality, which is definitely different than before. However, I'm still very much attracted to and interested in him sexually (regardless of the preference). We still get horny around each other as well, and since he still answers my calls, I always have the urge to want to 'jump his bones'. Is this an adjustment period or something?

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  • SkullsNRoses

    “We still get horny around eachother”.

    Assuming this is true and you’re not just ‘seeing what you want to see’, he’s not gay if he’s also attracted to girls. I’d say make a move and see what happens.

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  • ellnell

    I take it you're a woman.

    So he's bi? I can't see why that would change your feelings about him. It's just sexuality, he's still the same person.

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    • Shelle8

      Yes, I am. I assume he is bisexual, but my feelings are still the same while his feelings are not.

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      • Shelle8

        Also, I guess I have the biggest problem now because I have a high sex drive that he already knows about, but I don't like to venture out :-( He's very familiar to me

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  • d0esnormalmatter

    Yes of course what the hell.

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