Is it normal to be attracted to bullies?

i remember i had the biggest crush on this guy from high-school, but i’ve realized the main reason why that is because he was rude to others.

if he had never bullied anyone , i’m pretty sure that i would have never even liked him in the first place.

looking back , most of my childhood crushes were bullies as well.
( ex: biff tannen )

is there any particular reason behind this infatuation or am i just weird ?

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  • CoffeeTime

    Absolutely not. I have had friends like you who had dreadful experiences. Stay away from bullies. If not, you're threatening your life.

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  • litelander8

    Someone needs a spanking!

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  • RoseIsabella

    It's not normal to be attracted to bullies, but it's probably very common amongst people who are from dysfunctional families with abusive, and or neglectful parents. Many people are attracted to what is familiar to them rather than what is good for them.

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

    Maybe you like that theyre cruel. Something about that makes you horny.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Where's the poll?

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  • HolyBowler666

    Gentleman in the streets, bully in the sheets. Nice guys do it better. Sort of.

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  • paramore93

    Bullies are bullies, so no. Wouldn't you prefer the guy who sticks up for the people being bullied?

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  • Tealights

    You're normal.

    Unfortunately, it's nature trying to get you to mate with those who appear strong so you'll make strong children. It's instinctual. However, our lesson to learn is to not confuse aggression with confidence. Confident men don't need to bully others to feel strong, and are secure with themselves. Bullies make a show out of their aggression on the helpless in hopes to entertain others and feel important (basically, they are weak, but want to feel and be seen as strong).

    It's not surprising why you're attracted, because a bullies' actions can be seen/heard constantly and you don't know better. You'll be surprise that almost every girl you'll ever meet has fallen for the bad boy due to their boldness and lack of concern for consequences. Confident/stable men don't need to show off their strength, but only display it when necessary, which is hard for us ladies because we tend to notice confident men when it's too late.

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  • SKDM007

    you must masturbate over school shooters

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    • Nikclaire

      Tf???

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    It's not normal. Why like someone that could potentially hurt you?

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  • brutus

    Most women go for rude abusive assholes.

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  • CountessDouche

    Idk maybe mild hybristophelia.

    Anyways, it is NOT normal to be attracted to people that are cruel, and you specified that you are talking about bullies & not just people with strong personalities.

    I STRONGLY urge you to seek therapy. If you don't root out the cause of your attraction towards people that are abusive, you will end up in a relationship where you are abused. Bullies don't just "turn off" their need to belittle & control other people when in a romantic relationship.

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  • russellnb

    It seems a lot of girls and women like and marry bullies. Even ones that bully them. I think they have low self esteem and should really stay away fron the bully. Find soimeone nice who treats you well and builds your self esteem up.

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  • sissycakes

    women are brought up to submissive and generally like for men to be dominant over them. be careful though, some people are really just heartless and could hurt you if you get too close. also women may have this notion that they can tame a man who is "bad" to be better, or if the man is nice to them and not other people that it is something more special than someone who is nice to everyone, but bullies ruin lives so i would stay away

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