Is it normal to be attracted to a guy with a bad personality

Im 18, female and I really like this boy at school. The only problem is i dont know if he likes me or if he ever will. Hes so arragont, ignorant, and such a prick, hes very shrude, very upfront, very truthful and harsh, and very selective about who he tlks to. He only talks to me if it suits him, if he dusnt want to...he does'nt. All ma friends wonder why i like him, his personality to be honest turns me on. Hes very good looking and every girl i know agree's, just his personality is too bad boy, and hes a player who admits he cheats. Im pretty sure he would be open to sex and I am dying to jump on him, only problem is i want more, and dno if he ever will..what do i do? should i act on my feelings and hope for the best, or leave it out..help !

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Comments ( 34 )
  • Echoes

    Typical woman.

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    • ArayaLioness

      No.

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  • saix

    girls like you make me sick. speaking as a nice guy who never got the girls i loved because they never noticed me because i was their friend and nice, only to watch them go out with jerks while i thought all alone about treating them right and spending money on them while the assholes got to fuck them.

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    • benvigil

      same here my friend, exactly! girls like, sagging pants, ball cap on sideways, cocky......

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    • sparrowfeed

      no more mr. nice guy.

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    • ArayaLioness

      Are you ATTRACTIVE, saix? That's why so many women make foolish decisions.

      Women like that are stupid.

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  • Dren

    I think it's normal, but that doesn't mean it is. But it's a well-known stereotype for women: to always fall in love with the assholes, the same way men always fall for the skanks.

    I guess it's normal. He has power, you love it. That doesn't mean it's good thing, but hey.

    If you're not a virgin (you really don't want to loose your virginity to a jerk), it might be good to be with him for a while, do crazy stuff, get dumped and cheated on and learn an extremely valuable lesson for life. Or you could just skip that and perhaps grow over it, if you know what I mean. Your taste in men will quite possibly change as you get older.

    Don't forget: when you're asking for advice from The Internets, always bring a bucket of salt and don't take anyone's word for granted.

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  • korn3654

    Your as screwed up as every other women.

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    • ArayaLioness

      This post is irrational.

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  • xstarbugyx

    I'd rather be treated like a princess

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  • angrybirds

    Fuck all that be who you are bullshit. I've always been the most caring person to the women in my life and they shit all over me because they want to be treated like shit. It's horrible. I hope you get irreparable emotional scars from this jerk.

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    • ArayaLioness

      No. You SHOULD be who you are. No woman wants a faker. But most I'm betting want one who is attractive as well.

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      • GigglesGirl

        *Giggles* Faker. *Giggles*

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  • Uzzie101

    It's because the "bad" apes always did WHATEVER was need for survival. It's evolution, even if it sucks for normal guys :(

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  • carnage53

    Advice for you: Go for it marry him make some children, you get dumped or worse beaten the cr@p out of you and dumped, you will fell good cuz you are a horny masochist, well this is a fun scene to watch at least I am enjoying failure of all the girls I know, it fells good to see how stupid most womans are.

    Now advice for the good guys: stop being nice, stop being a reliable person, do not eat from their palms, do not salivate like a puppy after them, well behave like the dude in her description, woman's are shallow but is hard for them to acknowledge that, as you can see looks is all that matters.

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  • LeinaBxtchh

    i always fall in love with bad boys as well. arrogance turns me on. weird.

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  • MercedesBenz

    Typical.

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  • luicyyou

    they say girls like assholes and "bad boys" so yeah I think i know what you mean

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  • Kom

    dont be a slut and even you do not like being treated with respect try and be respectful to yourself.

    I know it is hard for peole like you to imagin the concept of respect and the disconfort you feel when you are treated like a respectful person but try and get used to it you will begin to like it

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  • I'm in the EXACT SAME SITUATION! I feel so frustrated yet excited at the same time. I was in your current situation for a few months, then kissed him at this party. But my excitement died out when I realised it hadn't changed anything. Back at school the next week, he was just his usual self: aloof, effortless, selective about when to talk, bit up himself, ignorant etc.
    To make matters worse, a couple of weeks later he had sex with my skanky friend. I'm moving on, or at least trying

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  • clinton

    Dress like a total slut, act like a hoochie around him...tease him till he can't flippin breathe...then....walk away lol.

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  • Twinguy

    you find plent of good and better looking guys with great personality. wait it out!

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  • gako

    It's just a faze. You will get over it.

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  • Sure show him how you feel and get rejected and treated like crap if it works out. I think it's a win/win situation!

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  • kawasakirider

    Don't listen to the haters. You can't help who you like, so like you said, act on your feelings and hope for the best (I should take my own advice haha). If it doesn't work out, it obviously won't be your fault because you and everyone else already knows what a prick he is.

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  • Lucyg123

    Go for it school only last so long but make sure your friends are ok with so if you take fall...

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  • BirdyMojo

    You're attracted to him because you know he's not attracted to you back. Typical.... most women do the same thing. Don't jump him, don't attempt or anything, because if he admits he cheats and everything there is NO WAY he will change for you at all. Seriously, the first mistake girls make is that they try to change guys into being this commitable yet amazing and thrilling guy. Sorry, if he isn't already like this, chances are he won't change UNLESS he WANTS to, and seems like from what you've told us..... that he doesn't want to change.

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  • You will be his slave.

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  • ohhh i luv bad guys, not soo bad as u told, but daym!! guys, nice nd cute guys, even if u are nice and u get youre girl and had sex with her, and u have good relationships, why dont u become more..idk..sh!tty..i mean become more bad..
    when youre relationships are based on truth and love and understanding, why wont u add some good poision, i mean, girls often likes to be slappen on the azz, and be nasty duded, make rawr and GRrr ;]

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    • Guitarist420

      did anyone understand a fuckin' word of that?

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    • to be slapped on the azz; and be rude, dudes, add this extra violence, not a lot, just for fun ****

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  • I hear you I like this guy and his is what you call a bad boy and im really attracted to him but id never do anything beacause i dont want my heart broken. *sad*

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  • abititio

    Nice guys are the ones who are the most dominte in bed surveys show, they are closet freaks bad boys are nice in bed, personalities shift so remember that.

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  • Rasec

    Dren has said it all.
    It's nomal that women feel that but you'll never get anything long with someone like that and get ready to feel used.

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