Is it normal to be attached to a guy after having sex?
Maybe it's just me but after I have sex with a certain friend I start to become attached.
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Based on 38 votes
(32 yes)
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CountessDouche
Are you a woman? Women release oxytocin after orgasm. It's a brain chemical that facilitates pretty strong feelings of emotional bonding. They realase the same chemical whilst breast feeding.
Historically and evolutionarily speaking, it made biological sense for women to more readily form attachments after sexual intercourse. We are biologically designed that way for reasons that are now more or less obsolete, not that it matters.
Ignore this if you're a man. There are always exceptions.
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KingTermite
This isn't necessarily true. Men can, and do, form emotional connections just from having sex.
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CountessDouche
Of course they can, and I apologize if I wasn't clear. What I meant to say is that the female brain produces a chemical after orgasm that the male brain does not (men tend to release oxytocin at other moments though, like a good first kiss). That isnf to say that men are incapable of becoming attached after or because of sex.
I only pointed it out because it can explain unwanted feeling of attachment after sex. Chemical reactions in the brain are powerful stuff, but they can be ignored as well. Our "feelings" don't dictate our response to them.
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KingTermite
Well then I believe we have found something we agree upon. I have to be on stage in 2 minutes or I'd elaborate further, but I need a Xanax before facing that unruly hoard, so I must leave this for another time.
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KingTermite
Again, I'm caught short on time, however the point I wanted to elaborate on was the powerful chemical reactions and the ability to ignore them. Far too many people aren't self-aware enough to realize when their physiology is working against their actual needs. It never ceases to amaze me the number of people that feel compelled to act upon their feelings. Anything from getting a divorce for a person that won't likely stay with you, to getting outraged over the loss of a place to park the car. So many people are driven by their emotions rather than being the master of themselves.
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LittleGirlInexorablySodomized
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KingTermite
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Steven2.0
Maybe stop putting superglue in the lube and you won't become attached to them.
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RainbowDischarge
True. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and I've been attached to his dick for years now.
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sexysonofsam
Be careful you do not become "attached" whilst making love, that could be very embarrassing when you have to go to the ER...
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bucho's_butt
I read about this girl who begged her boyfriend to put both his penis and balls inside her ass. Needless to say, it was a very regrettable decision, and they ended up having to call the paramedics to come sort the problem out. I wonder how they managed to get to the phone..
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sexysonofsam
Now that is exactly the type of "kinky" shit I am speaking about...imagine the pain the poor guy had to endear when they tried to wrench his balls from her tight little poop hole?
I know of another guy who was receiving a blowjob from his girlfriend when she suffered an epileptic fit and bit into his shlong, well they were in the kitchen when the unfortunate incident occurred and all he could do was reach for the fork and stab her in the head to get her release her bite on his schlong. They both needed to go to the ER afterwards for some stitches, imagine when they told their stories as to how they had obtained their injuries?
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