Is it normal to be asian and non-virgin

I'm an Asian girl and lost my virginity at 15 so its not normal that you THINK that just cuz you're Asian you should question whether or not it is normal to be a virgin at 23. All of my Asian friends are not virgins either. I am 19.
Also, Asian guys don't have small penises as stereotyped. The Asians that do tend to be smaller are Japanese and Vietnamese, or any Asian that is shorter in stature and smaller framed, it's a given though. A lot of Chinese guys and Korean guys have been big in my opinion. I've seen white guys' penises too and it was pretty much the same. I'm not a slut by the way lol.

Non-virgin Asians? Very very very very normal, I figure: the population of China is 1.3 BILLION. India, 1.1 BILLION. Can't we safely deduce that Asian people copulate, like A LOT?

Sorry...about premarital sex, though: I think it's pretty common, at least among Asians in the US. But lots and lots of Asians I know are SUPER-conscientious, like you sort of seem to be--which is very cool, but sometimes way too hard on yourselves... I'd offer the advice: do it, just don't tell anyone--but I imagine it might bother you anyway.

Bla bla bla, lets all just have sex and then we'll all be non-virgins.

dont do it .. u will regret it later

I'm Asian and live in an Asian country. I know what you're talking about. Anyway, you're normal. Don't sweat it. Don't worry about sex so much, and worry more about your own well being.

A non-virgin Asian is frowned upon in Asian countries, but put them in another region and they'll be accepted normally for the most part.

That's the normalist thing I've read on this site all day.

i also dun understand y u thinking of this...anyway, im a asian but im still virgin even though have boyfriend for last 7 years.
we want to have sex recently but he n i decide to have it ,after get married officialy..

Yea just cuz your Asian dnt mean u have more morals than anybody else wtf?

A close friend of mine yesterday told me "i find lingere so private, nobody sees it. only you know what you are wearing". how could i tell her that I had sex with my boyfriends and non-boyfriends. ugh!

I am 22 female and lost mine at 17. But many of my female friends are virgin i never talk about sex with them though i can talk with boys easily. Although in the same county i came from a city in which people are more free about sex but here it is like a taboo for girls. So be careful when younare talking about these things. I dont know asia but here people may call you easily a slut.

I lived in most of Asian countries and reached almost 100 girls in my sex list. Very funny..but I hardly experienced with a VIRGIN even though most or all of them were university student. Don't fool us with your Asian stuff

No one will be able to answer, if it's right or wrong, except you. The thing about sex is there is no normal.
"Sex is like tofo, it takes on the charicter of whatever you put with it"

you can talk to me at letzfolly at gmail if you want to share more of your thoughts

i'm Asian 25/m and a virgin too.. so there you go you are normal.. i can be that Asian guy Ihave2try is talking about ;).. seriously

Let's not be too insensitive about culture here. What's important to us may not be the same as what's important to others. That being said, what is "normal" for Asians is not the same for all Asians, of course.
If you live in Asia (esp. certain parts) then it may not be so easy to talk about the subject, and having sex before marriage can result in a lot of problems for you because of the reactions of family & friends, society, etc. Thus, it's not as easy a situation as we in the US might take for granted. If you live in the US it still may be an issue because of family issues.
The bottom line is that as an adult, it is up to you what you choose to do. Whatever you do, do it for the right reasons. Being "in," or having sex to seem "normal," or having sex just to have sex, or just bc it feels good are NOT good reasons.
Some Qs to consider: Will your decision make you happy? Miserable? Why? Why not? Are you & your happiness more important to you than the collective opinion or vice-versa? Are you in love? Do you think it will be worth it, or do you think waiting is better? Looking into yourself and finding the answers to some of these question will help you make the right choice for you.
Also, talking to someone such as a sex therapist, or someone who is NON-BIASED (who will not push in in any direction, but help you discover what your right answer for you) might not be a bad idea. Generally, when it comes to something as intimate, consequential, and important as sex, when in doubt, better to wait until you are sure. Good luck!

Try it with an Asian first, them move on up to another race!! JK, Ive never been with one so I wouldn't know how small they really are. Seriously, don't think about it, just do it when it feels right for YOU!

Haha the comment above. Anyways. I'm 19 Asian female and I'm not a virgin. My question to you is why do you make being Asian a big deal? I think your thinking about it too much. If you want it, do it. Don't care about "culture". Also. Me being Asian doesn't make me any different from other races lol so yeah. It's normal to be an asian and a non virgin.

LMFAO no offence but asian guys have small dicks maybe thats why they are so insecure about fken a girl really after marriage? LOL WTF in america ages 12+=normal to have sex.LIVE ur life its very short u can die at any given moment to miss out on something so big as sex b4 u die wud suck bec its 1 of the best things in this world :P.i lost my virginty 2days ago to my firends girlfirend lol wrong but soo right.

Lool your pinkey is as much as ur Asian bf lmfao

well if your dating an asian your probably not missing much...