Is it normal to be ashamed of my fetish?

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I have a pee fetish and whenever I masturbate with the thought in mind or to a video, I feel great, but soon after, I tend to sink into depression out of shame. Mostly I think about what my family or girlfriend might think of me if they ever found out, but I can't help it. Any thoughts on this? A part of me wants to think this is nothing to be ashamed of, but on the other hand I don't want to lose all respect from those I'm close to and be thought disgusting because of a fetish.

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  • Maya05
    11 years ago

    There shouldn't be anything to be ashamed of since it's a sexual fetish and a lot of people have some pretty odd kinks. That being said I feel the same way when it comes to my fetish. During masturbation I am fine, but almost immediately afterwards I feel depressed and ashamed of what I'm doing.

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    I meant fetish. Spellchecker changed it ti festival.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      its a festival for him lol

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    You didn't state your festival, so I don't know if that's normal. Anything is, except involving children or live animals, so if it's not one of those, you needn't be ashamed. You're just beating yourself up for nothing. Your family doesn't have to ever know, but you may be surprised if you tell your girlfriend. It may give your relationship more intimacy, and increase your sexual pleasure.

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    • quentari
      11 years ago

      He says "I have a pee fetish" in the first sentence lol :)

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    • Maya05
      11 years ago

      He said it's a pee fetish so I assume its things like Golden Showers and whatnot.

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  • deerhunter123
    10 years ago

    its ok to have a fetish. i love having my pee fetish

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  • Magenta_W
    11 years ago

    Don't worry buddy, most people have a fetish that they would rather not admit to. My main fetish isn't sick or illegal, but I would never let anyone know about it.

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  • IronHead
    11 years ago

    I don't see why your family would ever NEED to find out, anyway. Personally I have a number of fetishes (without any shame) and my family finding out is the least of my worries. Girlfriend on the other hand is a person you should probably talk about it to. Who knows? Maybe she's into it as well.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I'm still young, so I live with them and they're nosy and close-minded, so there's always a chance one of them will find out and get mad. :P

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Long as it is not kiddies or forcing unwilling participants not a big deal. Though sex is not something to talk about in front of all company. M&S kind of has to do with dominance and force but its with participants who like being controlled. With people who wish to dominate so still consensual.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    Normal to worry, but it's a pretty common fetish

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  • GreyWulfen
    11 years ago

    It's just a normal fetish, nothing to be ashamed of.

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