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i love my mom but it just seems whenever she opens her mouth i get annoyed with whatever she has to say.
hm i dont think its normal but i do it too. then again all my mom tends not say anything worth hearing.
same. i feel bad about it though. she frustrates me without even meaning to.
Yeah, especially if she is one of those negative types that complains about everything. Or one of those people that always has to give you advice, always. My Mother in law does it whenever I eat a doughnut, wear high heels, banter with my husband, etc... Some people just don't know when the listener doesn't give a shit.
I am a mother and I have to watch what I say to my daughter. She is very touchy and doesn't like to hear the other side of things or when I disagree with what she says. I feel, as a mother, it is my duty to be honest with her and to teach her right from wrong if she is under a certain age. I don't always tell her when I disagree, only when I think it is important enough that it will affect her future. Sometimes she gets mad at me but it's funny. After she thinks about what I suggested or said, her mind changes and I see a more mature women being made. Wait until you are a mother and see what you want to instill in your children. Perhaps a few sessions with a counselor might teach each of you how to communicate better, both on hearing and how to say things in a way that won't make you cringe when she talks. The sooner the better for both of you.
I'm the same way, except with my dad instead of my mom. I feel so bad for feeling this way because I know he doesn't annoy me on purpose, but the way he talks to me makes me feel like he doesn't take me seriously.
I feel the same way with my dad often. He tends to 'yack' at me. I think it is a habit he picked up from being in jail. It wouldn't be so bad if he just knew when to stop/shut up, but he just doesn't have a fucking off button... There is no polite way to tell him to please shut up either. He wouldn't get it anyway. I usually always listen, out of respect/politeness, but sometimes It just really gets to me. Argh!!!
Lol my mom is often like that too.. Quite often. She has no filter and can say the most unnecessary things to my dad and I, as well as other people. She also has an extreme temper, but I've learned use sarcasm to counteract her snippy remarks. My dad and I call her 'the slave driver' when she really gets going. (it's one of the types of pessimistic personalities..- a psychology thing)
OMG!!! we are one in the same!!! my mom just doesn't have a filter. she says what she wants, when she wants. and doesn't give a damn about anyones feelings. very negative. not her tone of voice, just the things she says.
Haha how long have u felt like this? Cause it seemed like when I hit a certain age (15 or so) I just couldn't stand to hear my mom talk! Like literally everything out of her mouth, NO MATTER WHAT IT WAS, I just couldn't stand to hear it! But I knew it's b just a phase and it was, it passed after a couple years and I love my mom and we get along real well now lol. So maybe it's just temporary! Gl!
You should listen to what she has to say. She is your mother. She deserves that much respect from he child.